Fake bdsm

Fake bdsm

LeoTheLion​(dom male) • Dec 15, 2019

Ice been looking and havent seen a blod to post where we find fake doms or fake submissive and ive found several that i want to report

FearlessBrat​(sub female){H.PL.} • Dec 15, 2019

Hi, I do not think having blog like that would be helpful. It would be like a witch hunt and you could victimize someone on a public forum by mistake. If you think someone is fake whether Dom or a Sub, just report it to to the moderators.

No Body​(dom male) • Dec 15, 2019

It does happen and some (a few) are just looking to see what it's all about before diving in.

Villanelle​(staff) • Dec 15, 2019

It's against our rules to publicly "out" someone. This doesn't mean you can't share your feelings privately with your friends but the discussion forums and blogs are not meant to be used in this way. If you feel someone is harassing or abusing you the best thing you can do is take a screenshot of the behaviour and visit their profile and hit the report button. We review every single report, usually within 12 - 24 hours.

LordofPain56 • Dec 17, 2019

I can't imagine a personals website (vanilla or BDSM) that doesn't have at least 50% fake profiles. They are easy enough to spot at first glance. Just ignore those and move on.

Conan​(dom male) • Jan 2, 2020

Yeah, I've lost a few really good friends to guys playing at being doms here. Got nudes and then their true colors came out and they blackmailed these women into staying in an abusive dynamic.

Just please, dont show your faces in your pornographic antics.

And be careful calling people out for it. I've been banned for it before. ×_×

Erick​(sub male) • Jan 11, 2020

I don't want nothin' from anyone. Ain't that much to take.
Wouldn't know the difference between a real blonde and a fake.

--Bob Dylan

alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } • Jan 11, 2020

"Isn’t all BDSM at its core, fantasy, therefore fake? I mean I keep 3 young slaves 24/7 at my home, but in the end it’s still just fun roleplay" said by TheMortician(sadist male).

To me this is not fantasy nor role play. I am in a 24/7 irl relationship with my Owner/ Dom/Daddy/Master. I state it this way because we live together and he is all these things in our relationship.

It might be a difference that lays between those that are looking for a relationship to those that are just wanting to play games. There is a hugh difference. .
That is why it is so important to be honest when talking to others and with yourself as ro what you truely are looking for.

I agree that you should not include face in nude pics when sending them . there are exceptions to that and those would be up to each person i think . but i for one would just say not to send nudes to someone.with ur face or other such things that could out you , to just anyone . and always go slow when talking with a possible partner.

Re: Fake bdsm

Miki​(masochist female) • Jan 11, 2020

DEFINE a fake dom, domme or sub. Aside from those on a money grab what exactly makes you think someone is "fake" just because they don't fit your expectations?

You're just as bad as them. Anyone who puts me on a Salem type list will also be duly reported.

Meg​(dom female){NotLooking} • Jan 11, 2020

I'm pretty sure a "fake list" would just be populated by people whose itty bitty widdle feewings got hurt when someone politely rejected them for a completely reasonable reason.

I also think that if one is going to participate in something like this, that one should not act like a moron and have a small shred of self preservation.

If one is stupid enough to send nudes without one's face concealed to some rando, then perhaps the consequences are reserved. If you're dumb enough to give personal information to someone you don't have good reasons to trust, then maybe you need to learn your lesson the hard way. Life doesn't come with padding and caution tape.

If you can't suss out a fake on your own, you need to tune your radar. It's not hard.