Finally feeling comfortable

Finally feeling comfortable

gprincesssub​(sub female) • Sep 25, 2018

Finally, saying the words.
Finally, feeling comfortable in my own skin.
Finally, not feeling ashmed of who I am.
Finally, being able to say I am a submissive.
Now, to start learning how to be a good submissive!

Where to go from here

gprincesssub​(sub female) • Sep 25, 2018

Question to other submissive. Where do I go from here.

subjazzy​(sub male) • Sep 26, 2018

I like that you posted this. I have suppressed my submissive side for many years. Finally I let go and accepted it. Accepted myself. I don’t know the answer to your question, as I am still trying to figure that out. I do know I like myself for finally accepting that this is what I like and who I am!

Crave it

Kinsub1 • Oct 10, 2018

I’m very submissive and kinky I love being humiliated,spit on nastier the better from a bbw white dominated female that’s down for any thing

FabSeverus​(dom male) • Oct 10, 2018

More like a blog than a forum question in my opinion...

Bunnie • Oct 10, 2018

Hi @ gprincesssub, that’s really awesome to hear I understand how daunting it can be, and I know the desire you have to want to become the best you can be for Him/Her. I think reading is a good place to start... read blogs, forums, books (there are forums that have recommended readings... also google will become your best friend lol), listen to podcasts. I would also suggest to start writing. It really helps with thoughts and to learn about yourself as you go... you can also share it with your Dominant. Research the different aspects of the lifestyle to help get an understanding of the different dynamics that people identify as, and to help you find the things that resonate with you. The best thing you can do for a potential Dominant, is get to know yourself, and learn to communicate that. Explore, have fun and stay safe

Phanes​(dom male) • Oct 10, 2018

Some good references to read:

https://jolynnraymond.com/2013/02/whats-in-a-name-an-explanation-of-bdsm-roles/ What’s In a Name? An Explanation of BDSM Roles 18 c

https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/ BDSM Training Academy

https://bdsm-sexperts.blogspot.com/2010/07/types-of-dominance.html Kinkster's Guide

You would be correct

gprincesssub​(sub female) • Oct 11, 2018

Sorry, I accidently posted in the wrong spot. Then couldn't figure out how to delete.

Thank you

gprincesssub​(sub female) • Oct 11, 2018

Thank you, I will definitely look into them.

SOGirlOnFire​(sub female) • Oct 11, 2018

Absolutely!!!! I am also reading profiles..... of other subs and Doms both... helping me learn just what my Dom “looks like” by learning about me.....especially if their words RESONATE (thank you Bunnie) with you...