Moonstruck |
5 years ago •
Mar 13, 2019
5 years ago •
Mar 13, 2019
Moonstruck • Mar 13, 2019
Let me take another perspective and ask the "why." Why is this a goal, a dream? What is your motivation, your reasoning? Also, I second Kara's question: have you ever had an individual, long term monogamous relationship during which you didn't cheat?
I have always worked in female heavy businesses, and I can tell you just from those situations, groups of females are difficult, even when they go in with their eyes wide open, even when they think they'll be ok with the additional partners. Additionally, there will be a lot to manage in such a household: finances, sleeping arrangements, vehicles and everything that goes with them, cooking, cleaning and other household maintenance, plus seeing to the emotional needs of everyone involved. This is a situation where everything that you do has the potential to indicate favoritism: who gets to sit next to you at dinner, who gets the front passenger seat in the car, who got the first or last or most cookies in the package, and so on and so on. Yes, we should all be able to act like adults, but we're human, and we have bad days and days where we're unsure or feeling less confident and those feelings and their consequences will be multiplied with every woman you add. |
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