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Advice for Newbies

AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond}
5 years ago • Aug 15, 2019
Look at that as a good thing because it is! Now you know what type of person they are. So much better to find out now than once you’ve already committed or put in an ample amount of time trying to get to know them.
Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin}
5 years ago • Aug 16, 2019
* That the sleazeballs come at you hard and fast.
* All sleazeballs do not look alike. Some actually have opposable thumbs & don't fling their dung at you when agitated, at first.
* Just because they are males, they are not necessarily M(ature)en enough to handle rejection.

There are more, but i'll leave it there, for now icon_biggrin.gif
Sunnie​(sub female)
5 years ago • Aug 16, 2019
Sunnie​(sub female) • Aug 16, 2019
It's ok to say NO. It doesn't make you any less of a sub nor or you exhibiting brat behavior. You are not required to do/show stuff to a stranger.
Use your voice to speak up. We are submissives with amazing minds, not doormats. If your not ready for something, say it. Communication is key. Also trust your instincts.

When I first came here someone had told me that I was not acting the way a sub should and was acting like a brat. Literally 2 sentences were exchanged and he wanted nudes!