Issue with FinDom?

House Talion​(dom male) • Apr 17, 2020

Junk like that should be reserved for fetlife

Taramafor​(sub male) • Jun 3, 2020

Here's my issue with findom.

They tend to only want you for your money. And if you can't or unable to do that they turn their back on you.

That's like refusing to accept someone for their flaws. I'll bust my back for someone that looks after me. But findom doesn't go "Look after you". It goes "I'm after your wallet".

It CAN be a kink. But many people use it as an excuse to take advantage. I see enough of that happening in other areas to know when someone is actually being kinky with someone that matters and when they're using you without a care.