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Bunnie
4 years ago • Oct 11, 2020
Bunnie • Oct 11, 2020
It’s kind of odd. He’s saying nasty things to you while you sleep?
You both have a bull, but he’s the cuck isn’t he?
Before anyone gets their knickers in a twist, I’m not asking this in a “victim blaming” way... I’m wondering if perhaps he feels this is his only opportunity to vent frustrations at things he’s unhappy with. Perhaps he feels he can’t communicate it to you and perhaps he can’t communicate it to your bull. So he’s venting in the only way that feels safe?

I understand it makes you feel unsafe... I would feel that way too, I think anyone would. Reading it though, I couldn’t help but picture a dog growling in a way of releasing frustration, but in a way that wasn’t going to get it into trouble. (Sorry... I’m not calling your husband a dog... sometimes it’s just easier to explain what I mean by the way I visualise it).

If you trust him and feel safe enough to want to work out what’s going on, I agree with MissBonnie... just ask him. And truly listen to what he says. Something is definitely going wrong here... and I agree with IowaDom, it is a bit alarming.