When is too soon and when is long enough?

Purple Freesia • Oct 18, 2020

Thank you to everyone who has commented; I appreciate the nature of going slow and fast, following your heart etc. - I think for me going at the pace of connectedness is more about if I am going to get hurt I would rather be hurt at the beginning than during the middle or at the end.

Tthomas • Dec 8, 2020

I hear the term follow your heart a lot.

I often wonder if that means let that be the deciding factor.

I would much rather my head be the deciding factor. My heart will have input but will not be the one that stirs my decision.
If I were to let my heart be the end all I would have been in some very happy but in the end disastrous situations.

Take everything into consideration. your head will know what to do.

Miki​(masochist female) • Dec 9, 2020

At the risk of being repetitive...
Take your time If it's worth the having, it will persevere.
If they give up too fast.. there ya go