Ponderence: Caffeinated or Decaffeinated?

I don’t know. That brain alone might put you well past ‘cute’....

Then again, my tastes are pretty eccentric.

Besides, since when is ‘cute’ a reason not to punish?

Just pout, bat my eyes and they melt like cheap butter.

Just sayin'!

So what's so big about my brain? But yeah, I'm beyond "cute" (says 5 foot -1 me)

PS Sorry to have sidetracked the thread and gone off-topic. Time for me to close out for the night anyway. Do carry on, fellas!

I don't think that disobedience (and the punishment thereof) is the only way to display an exchange of power.

If I say "Get me a cup of coffee," in a high-handed authoritarian tone that doesn't sound at all like a reasonable request made to an egalitarian partner, and my partner responds "Right away sir," drops what they're doing and leaps to fetch my coffee--I feel like power exchange is being pretty clearly displayed there!

And yeah: I personally love to see and feel the intentional inequalities in my relationships on a regular basis. I love to demand obedience just to prove, yet again, that my partner will obey, and to enjoy the experience of it. But I have no need for them to fuck up and have to be punished, and I don't mind at all if they do it right the first time without needing training.

I'm with Miki, I thought this was about coffee and feel tricked ?

I'd be curious to hear from more doms on this. As a sub I have my own mind for sure but I also prefer to immediately comply with a task asked of me. I honestly don't understand why that line is added in unless they want a brat?

Just my .02

ohhhh the shortage of accomplished Brat-Tamers out there!

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To be sure a lot of my responses are because I am not a full time "sub" nor a even "real" sub as defined in some quarters on here. Just a sexual maso-girl.

But as I said, I would comply with requests, just in a way they don't expect because I'm said to be "cute as a button" and would get away with it. Such as when vacuuming the floor. When the dom isn't looking, face the ass end of the vacuum towards them and sprinkle just a pinch of finely ground black pepper.

achoo! achoo!

"You OK? Maybe you should go get tested!"

Punk'd!

(Kind of. It's been years since I saw that show and know it's not quite the same, but it is along the lines how I'd operate 'cuz I can.)

"Your results may vary. Offer void in Alaska and Hawaii. See Dealer for Complete Details"

Miki, you're my hero sometimes! I can get sassy here and there but it just isn't in me. I'll enjoy the antics though.

Bringing popcorn!

.. and one more off topic before I get yelled at...

An oldie but goodie that actually worked. The Saran-Wrap over the bathroom bowl trick. This was years ago when I did live with someone of the D persuasion. They never pay attention... They just whip it out, take a wizz... and this time the "lemonade" ended up everywhere, even on the dude's shoes.

Well truth be told I couldn't sit down for a couple days after that, but it was worth the stream of curses coming out of the bathroom and a few "Miki Come Here!" orders after the cussing stopped.

Those were the days. I was frankly surprised that old college prank worked.

A good sub should be rewarded while a bad sub should be punished