Sub Training Advice

MasterFracDaddy • May 1, 2021

Having said that... I just start with mutually agreed upon limits, ask what she’s looking for then get started 😉 I have my own language and I train them to respond to my language. It’s a very simple and easy start that keeps the mind and body active.


Also I would be remiss if I did not mention that this process is as important for her and how she feels as it is for you and how you feel. I’m kind of sensing that this means not as much to her as you might think. This kink could very well lead to the end of your relationship

If you have gone through a 20 page document then the concept is probably more sexually pleasing than the actual acts of the contract.

How does she want me to train? Does the way I am training bring her satisfaction? Etc... Those are the questions that you need to be asking. Submission is not enslavement. Slavery enslavement...... And quite frankly there’s a myriad of reasons why you would not want to enslave another human being. Rip up the contract, she is your wife ffs. 😉

Dragonlove​(sub female) • May 1, 2021

You are both new to the lifestyle. You're going to have to allow yourself some time to adjust. Don't set your expectations too high.

I'm newer and I couldn't fathom a 20 page contract from even an experienced dom. That is incredibly overwhelming and makes me anxious to think about lol.

Slow down and enjoy. Congrats ans awesome that you've both been open enough with each other to get to this point even.

Miki​(masochist female) • May 1, 2021

The good thing that can set anyone at ease if a 20 page "contract" is cause for pause...

They're just props in the scenario.

None of these contracts have legal standing, so if it gets "intimidating" at any level, either party can simply tell the other to wipe their ass with it.

Same and especially for the "master / slave" contracts. Slavery at any level is illegal and such contracts are just novelty items and potential toilet tissue.