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Guyyy​(dom male)
8 months ago • Mar 4, 2024

Re: Conversing between the sexes

Guyyy​(dom male) • Mar 4, 2024
As a younger man I struggled to express what I wanted in both vanilla and BDSM contexts. (I have little issue expressing what I want now.)

Looking back, I believe it was a matter of low self worth. There are other reasons, but they all roll up to a lack of self esteem.

@Chattel I'm curious what prompted the question if you don't mind sharing.
chattel​(sub female)
8 months ago • Mar 4, 2024

Re: Conversing between the sexes

chattel​(sub female) • Mar 4, 2024
Everything wrote:
As a younger man I struggled to express what I wanted in both vanilla and BDSM contexts. (I have little issue expressing what I want now.)

Looking back, I believe it was a matter of low self worth. There are other reasons, but they all roll up to a lack of self esteem.

@Chattel I'm curious what prompted the question if you don't mind sharing.



The simply inane and irrelevant comments entering my inbox prompted this.
sweetcheekz
8 months ago • Mar 5, 2024
sweetcheekz • Mar 5, 2024
In my experience, all men have a hard time expressing what they want in a relationship and how they feel, but that's just been my personal experience.