Getting responses to messages

astrielle​(sub female){Taken} • Oct 18, 2024

I don't respond to a lot of the messages in my inbox because I can't manage multiple conversations and expectations. It feels overwhelming when I try. I definitely won't respond to messages that are unkind and/or creepy. Just being genuine will stand out enough, to be honest.

I can tell you that I didn't respond to your message because I read your profile and determined I wasn't what you were looking for. My mental health was and still is a work in progress, and I like to smoke weed. So I filtered myself out.

AlphaByDesign​(dom male) • Oct 18, 2024

I will ask someone about something on their profile that I found interesting and unique. I have found this to be a non threatening approach that builds rapport and shows I am taking a genuine interest in them beyond the boundaries of bdsm.
Women on here are more likely to talk if you don’t start with something bdsm related.