MidSummerDream(neither female){BothHold๐}
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7 months ago •
Jun 17, 2025
Just looking out for you. But it took me 3 years to leave a person in past past time 2016 tell you best to get out so you can heal and bloom so you can get back on board but date yourself become the partner their is lots of time in life but you need to make a new life for yourself. But I healed got help they have help you just gotta ask the right people they have help.
EMERGENCY Please Read : If you look up the National Domestic Violence Hotline on internet search you will find it never lose this you never know but you will need it now or someone will. You can talk to someone, just go for a walk if you have to, don't say were your going. They will talk to you and help you but you need to be to listen to them do the right things do it safe. Ask yourself, is this the life you want to live? Because if it was me I'd say no you can do better. Take some time as time and place for the lifestyle and take a break but still live it but you need to focus on your vanilla and take care of yourself and heal go some were safe you can still be in the lifestyle just take a small break but when its best til you feel calm and safe. Don't get with anyone right away or look like you need to focus on you right now getting with anyone right away or jumping into anything can cause your trauma to still catch up with you from before just saying it will keep being a ball and chain til you do a bit of shadow work this is not to tell you what do but best to be safe right now just keep on down low and just look for friends not relationships at this time. Gotta have a balance in life you need space but need support right now. I know it says you are unattached but just saying. I don't know if you are still living in this situation but it's best to leave. Don't stay thinking it's going to get better, don't stay just because you don't wanna be alone. Your staying got know were to go even if you are single get out find the places that can help you also don't stay stuck unstuck your life brush yourself off and try just try you have to push yourself say you can get out live a better. It's up to you to tell this is not my story this only a a page my story is when I leave this place. So do some mirror work, talk to yourself, you deserve better, say your getting out. DO it in silence in your head tho til you leave. But if you get out, good cause you deserve better. know one should be treated like this. They never change, they just feeding you with words and no effect but keep going back to the childish games. They are using you for their own game they are not happy its a narcissistic move they are using it as excuse they hide with closet drinking , mimicking others , showing off to others why blaming the victim , Still act like a child in mans body party do dangerous things. They only want you to say your sorry or please and they only after validation they will keep you like a trophy but not care unless you doing something that makes them happy. Only time they help a victim is unless it was in public but to try to make themselves look better. Don't fall for their lies and games because it gets old you have to stand up for yourself don't tell them you are leaving plan it out when they are not looking do it fast. Because for your own safety you need to save yourself from them best to keep low key to leave pack small bag keep outside. Go tell the people next door tell them what's going on if you need help start taking walks go to public places I know this sounds weird but start crying cause if you can make a friend even for a few mins you need to talk to someone get it out make you feel better cause someone can help you so you don't feel stuck. You better else were living in the same place as this person not safe you need to get out the house get in to sage place they could trap you or isolate you if they find out more. Learn self defense. If you have a car then pack your stuff and leave. They cannot hold you against your will. Pack when they not looking do when they leave. Strangers may not always be people to ask but any store or library you gotta break down and cry let people see so you can get help you don't have a car know were to go some strangers might he the person to help get hold of the right people. Go to church say you got to know were to go you in an abuse situation but people know what's going on churches are willing to help in need they have support groups. You do not have to be religious but you need to find a path to faith. This is a call to cause time to get out why you can. But if you have family or friends get in contact with them save some funds but if you don't do the above. Get your things have the police escort you out of the house the authorities can help you find a place help abuse victims ether a center or church they are private organizations that ex dom will not be able to bother you. If you don't have the funds, family services can help you pay for a train or bus to get you back home, but you need to let them know your in situation that is not safe. If you need other funds for food or goods you might be able to be on temporary funds sign up for them keep asking victims can get help. You should be able to get free counseling and therapy and stuff to help you get back on your feet. Go to the local work force and ask them if they have any training to help you with a career path or any work just to make your own funds and save up. You may be able to get short term social security benefits for the past abuse you are suffering from anxiety, depression and loss of being afraid as a victim. Do self care and self love, do not give up on yourself be selfish take care of yourself and your needs, set some boundaries. State can even help you by going to a gym help with stress fitness good way to keep healthy and stress less. Take whatever services you can even ask for tickets for good will or second hand stores if you get a place don't have extra clothes you don't have things low funds because social services has to provide vouchers by law to those that are in need in your case even to get furniture. Apply for free medical benefits that can help you pay rent, pay for food, and self care goods like gadgets to help you cope as art therapy, and so on. Look into food goods ad bridge cards for food benefits. If you do not know how to drive try state can help you find services that can show you how or help you find transportation to get you a helper to pick up or grocery's and so on and rides to places. Take the need to romance yourself, date yourself at this time and cherish yourself be sexy for you no need to please anyone only you. Heal and bloom - take time to go for walks and get in nature when you have time. Be selective with your heart, time and energy, be social selective but open doors. You don't have to look but make some friends at this time. Look in to housing soon as possible to get on the list even if get own place the state can help you best to get your own place if you know your safe. Change all your social media and only tell the people you are close to I would not use your real name use a different one don't use any of your real ones til things calm down only put friends only. I would just change emails and stuff. Block them on emails and every were put in spam. Block the calls altogether. Turn off gps also and location. Tell your phone provider that you need to change your number do to stalker but make sure you have passwords to emails and change all passwords as well and write them down to remember them. Change locks on the doors if you move in or place move out of town. Keep your life more private keep it private message only share very little until someone earns your respect but they need to how get to know you on a deeper level not force you do things not in your wishes. Someone should make you feel safe and calm not be a headache. Good person would protect you, help you with your goals, support you and never be little. Remember the wrong ones only belittle they are not leaders they more going through their own problems to try to cover it up. Stay single for a while as you heal but you can still go meet people does stop you from trying but take it slow let someone be your friend and peace first let it grow over time. How to Heal Your Emotional Trauma & Past Wounds | Healing Workshop ๐ sit with it ๐ฏ๏ธ Do what makes you happy. 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