Photos as proof...

rosethorn​(sub female) • Aug 10, 2018

Thank you all for your input xxx

Byrdie​(switch female)​{rl only} • Sep 15, 2018

If I'm going to be meeting someone for a coffee date, I request a photo so that I know who I'm waiting for. If they refuse to send a photo of their face, I assume that they're not planning to show.

Hawkeye • Sep 15, 2018

If meeting someone for the first time and privacy is a issue then I ask for her to wear a specific thing. It could be a color and type of her dress, a way to wear her hair or perhaps a flower in her hair. This way her identity is safe and only known if you both show up. In my opinion if you assume the worst, the worst will most likely happen. It requires trust and a bit of blind faith on both sides.

rosethorn​(sub female) • Sep 16, 2018

Thanks Hawkeye that's a good idea, its just finding what is comfy for you and the other person