What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } • Jul 14, 2021

Being polite; it tells me he respects others and himself.

A sense of humor...I find it incredibly sexy!

Patience....

A deep, masculine voice.

Honesty and integrity.

Duke Montefort​(dom male) • Jul 15, 2021

Modesty,

Intelligence

Wit

Wisdom

Fore thought

lifedomhere​(dom male) • Jul 15, 2021

Loyal, without compromise.

misscowbaby​(sub female) • Jul 15, 2021

- Confidence/Self-awareness
- Lips
- Eyes
- Just the right amount of body hair
- Sarcastic wit
- Solid personality

medgalnyc • Aug 7, 2021

Good personality takes precedence on all
Fabulous eyes
..and being honest
Toungue piercings (depends on the type of girl)


I might get yelled at here.. but I hate tatoos unless they are really (but I mean REALLY) cool or well done.

ThisIsTheWay​(dom male) • Aug 8, 2021

Intelligence ,
Kind,
Cute laugh,
Medium frame,
Active,
Affection,
And much more.

BlaqBrat​(sub female) • Aug 8, 2021

Beards
Tats
Being a true gentleman
Creativity + spontaneity
A deep voice
Arm and back muscles

Cressida Clytie​(masochist female){Taken} • Sep 23, 2021

Clean

Byrdie​(switch female){rl only} • Sep 23, 2021

* Good writing skills (grammar, spelling)
* Compassion
* Kindness
* Good conversation
* Good communication skills (emotions, boundaries, scheduling, disclosure. etc.)
* Family-friendly body art (if I can avoid it, I don’t watch gory movies)
* Willingness to resolve interpersonal issues
* Sober (including success in ongoing recovery)
* Trustworthy
* Introspective

luvij​(sub female) • Sep 23, 2021

A gorgeous smile, beautiful teeth
A muscular physique; chest, arms and thighs in particular.
Intelligence and a subtle hint of cockiness about it.
Confidence; it makes someone shine.