MztrBonz(dom male)
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4 years ago •
Aug 28, 2020
Greeting / Introduction MztrBONZ. Male DOM Tulsa, Oklahoma
4 years ago •
Aug 28, 2020
Greetings to THE CAGE family!
I have most recently moved from Los Angeles to Tulsa, Oklahoma to return to the place where I was born, raised and grew into adulthood. I miss Los Angeles greatly and my circle of very close friends but I had to return to Tulsa to be closer to my family. My grandkids were growing up without me and I missed them greatly.
When I meet new people the conversation turns to what I enjoy doing or what my hobbies are.............I always stop and think about it as I know what I am going to say may be uncomfortable for the person that asked but I live my life honestly, genuine and authentic. Its the only way I know to live and stay happy and healthy. My answer to them when they inquire as to what my hobbies are is SEX. Anything to do with sex I find exciting and interesting. I study human sexual behavior from a psychological point of view and I experience sex in many different forms. There is always something to learn and I glean new knowledge every day.
CERTIFIED MASSAGE THERAPIST:
I am a certified massage therapist since 1985 as it gave me the legitimate opportunity to touch people which I knew I needed. I get just as much out of giving a massage as anyone receiving my massage gains. It is an energy exchange. I learned early on to be careful who you choose to massage. At times I had to massage people that are injured or very ill and one's positive energy can be soaked out of you so I had to learn protection techniques.
THERAPIST / MENTAL HEALH:
I've worked as a therapist in a private mental health facility in Los Angeles and thoroughly enjoyed working with my clients. I learned a lot about general human behavior and my own personal mental and emotional issues. We all have them you know.
SEXUAL SURROGATE:
I am a member of the International Professional Surrogates Association and work as a Sexual Surrogate. Most of my work in this vein is Psychological as that appears to be where most people's sexual problems begin. As a sexual surrogate we can touch our clients to work with them when necessary. Most but not all are mental and/or emotional vs. physical issues. We always rule out any physical problems a client may have before beginning work on their mental and emotional issues. I work with a client's therapist and the client as a triad. We all stay in close contact with each other as the process moves forward.
SEXUAL EDUCATOR/ VOLUNTEER:
Some of the most rewarding experiences I have had centered around my volunteer work for a 501 C-3 organization named Sex Positive Los Angeles (SPLA) which is a chapter affiliated with Sex Positive World. The LA Chapter is the largest one reporting to SPW with almost 3,000 members.
I volunteered as the Membership Chair, VP of Operations and as the Chairman of the SPLA Board. My involvement as the Membership Chair afforded me the unique opportunity to learn about human sexual behavior from a different point of view. I had to work with the members regarding the desire to join the group and any and all questions or concerns the members may have about themselves or others in the group. The interaction between members when sex is involved can become intense. This practical experience has proven to be most valuable.
SEX POSITIVE OKLAHOMA:
I am making plans to create a new Sex Positive Chapter in my home state of Oklahoma. This may be a daunting task but I believe I am up for any and all backlash I may receive from the general community. I find the people here in Tulsa badly need a place where they can express themselves regarding their sexuality and they need a safe place where they can learn and ask necessary questions. I am one that believes that sex eduction should be provided to children at an early age and should continue from an age appropriate vantage either through public and private schools or churches, etc. I find the people here in Tulsa lack knowledge of the basics of their own sexuality and there is no place for them to go to receive help or assistance. Each person is on their own. I want to fill a void and help the people here gain the proper knowledge they need to conduct themselves as educated adults. And also provide a safe environment where the adults can explore their sexuality.
PRO / DOM:
I also work as a Pro/DOM in my spare time. I gained much experience while living in Los Angeles for the past ten years and I am continuing to offer my services to the people here in Tulsa. The Kink Community is very small here so I do not have any illusions of making a lot of money while providing my services. However, I get satisfaction out of knowing that I can show the ones that are interested what the Kink Community and what fetish play is all about. Its not what most people think it is. That's all I am going to say about that.
So writing out this introduction tells everyone (including myself) what I am all about at the moment. I look forward to meeting anyone willing to converse about their sexual lives as that is a great way to share and learn. It is very satisfying to share knowledge and information with like-minded friends.
I am close to being fully pansexual and I am Demi-sexual, Sapio-sexual and cannot maintain a monogamous relationship as I prefer PolyAmory and Poly-Sexual relationships. I am a LEO born on July 30 and an INFJ-A in the Myers-Briggs Personality World. I'm presently 67 years old and in great shape. I am enjoying life as Lone Wolf but welcome any and all types of friendships and relationships. I am proud to state that I am masculine, sensual and passionate.
I'm a nurturing DOM and help my subs to learn and move forward with their lives much like I did with my two children and my four grandchildren. I'm not talking about incest here.......I'm talking about how I care for my subs and help them to grow as a healthy human being. THAT satisfies me greatly.
If you want to know something or want to make a comment then please do so. Thank you. MztrBonz.
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