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Non-sexual traits or things that turn you off

Noire{Owned (NH)}
3 years ago • Jun 22, 2021
Noire{Owned (NH)} • Jun 22, 2021
Personally I try to see the things in a potential spouse that I don’t necessarily like.. But would be willing to live with if I really liked them. But for the purpose of what “turns” me off is..
1: Inconsistencies, both in character and communication.

2: Blatant disrespect for basic humanity.

3: Hard drug usage, which is more of a deal breaker.

4. Inability to change or grow, spiritually, emotionally physically etc.

5: Chewing with your mouth open. Jesus take me now! XD I can’t stand that!
Masque​(dom male)
3 years ago • Jun 22, 2021
Masque​(dom male) • Jun 22, 2021
Automatic turn offs: Lack of hygiene, lying to me

Turn-offs that make me very very skittish: hard drugs, heavy use of alcohol or weed, being overly pushy for sex (I've been used, thanks, not looking to get used again)

Just right off hand
Anakha​(switch male){Ingénue}
3 years ago • Jun 22, 2021
There are some things that people do when they're feeling envious of someone else's dynamic. I've experienced several examples of this, recently, from irrelevant people who belong only in my past:
* shit stirring
* Gossiping
* Lying
* Playing games
* Underhandedness
* Creating a pity party
Lolabrigida​(sub female)
3 years ago • Jul 7, 2021
Lolabrigida​(sub female) • Jul 7, 2021
Bad manners
disrespectful attitude
unrealistic expectations
Fakes/scammers
Liars
Bad breath
Body odour
Anger
Attitude of entitlement
Selfishness
IndomitableCharm​(dom female)
3 years ago • Jul 7, 2021
- Not recognizing that people are individuals (e.g. "all [type of] women do/say/think XYZ")
- Saying what they think I want to hear and not expressing their own opinions
- Issuing insincere apologies (or no apology at all)
- Not holding oneself accountable and instead constantly pushing blame to the outside world
- A lack of ambition or desire for self-improvement
- Aggression and callousness
chillfox
3 years ago • Jul 7, 2021
chillfox • Jul 7, 2021
Fake people
Racist, xenophobic, homophobic or misogynistic people
People that are rude to other people for no reason at all
Lack of hygiene
Bragging too much when they're not that good
Emotionally manipulative
Disrespectful
Too jealous and possessive
smeagol​(switch male)
3 years ago • Jul 7, 2021
smeagol​(switch male) • Jul 7, 2021
Keyboard Warriors
People pretending to be what they aren't be it Dom or sub
pretenders who are just after a quickie
Lies
Ghosting
Clinginess