testosteroneandtacos
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2 years ago •
Sep 9, 2022
2 years ago •
Sep 9, 2022
My perspective here is that it's easy to leave a guy with the impression that there's this thing you reject about him. On a daily basis men are already given the social impression that their dick is a problem and their cum can ruin lives. Then a person gives you pleasure, but at the apex of that pleasure have a reaction as though you've thrown cat shit in their face. Wincing, gagging, looking at you like they wish you hadn't given them that experience. I've tasted my cum. It's not lolipops and rainbows. Unexpectedly strange. Kind of salty, but weird flavors like spicy and savory like bad egg drop soup. I'm told it can be better if I eat certain things. And it's sticky. I understand the intial sensation a woman may have when young and first coming into contact with jiz. However my feelings tell me that as a person gains experience with partners that it's important to find ways to embrace them. Swallowing can be a form of intimacy, acceptance, reassurance, or submission. I would feel embarrassed if a woman squirted and I scowled or gagged.
I'm straight, so I can't comment on giving head. But getting for me is a mixed bag. I have always had a fairly low chance of orgasm during any form of sex. Love the sensations of sex, and I've worked on it enough to have control, but a blow job can feel pretty ho-hum. However I've only ever had one woman who gave me head I loved and came from regularly. And when that happened it was the best orgasm. But then she would have a look on her face and a mouth full of cum and run off to the bathroom to spit it out and swish moutwash. To me that was a mixed experience. Love going down on me, and then have such a reaction to the result. I think only one other woman has ever made me orgasm with oral, but she always swallowed. I felt less pleasure from the technique, but swallowing my load felt more accepting. So I hold both of them in equal regard for different parts of the experience. For the most part, unless someone is really paying attention to pleasing me and gets it, and/or swallows, it's a pretty forgetable experience, and for me that makes the cum-avoidant less attractive.
In response to the no kissing after cum in her mouth, my view on that is that snowballs are a no go. I also wouldn't enjoy if she would spit a drink or food in my mouth. But if she swallows and is clean then it's all good.
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