How long is too long?

InATimelyFashion​(masochist female){Infinity ∞} • May 18, 2024

No offence, also be cautious of this. Don't waste your time even if it's too long.
When the person is looking for a life that is not long term, a life in means they just want a maid , roommate , sex , you to pay half. Meaning the poser uses the lifestyle as an excuse just for sex their own needs but won't get your attention or the time of day may belittle you. Only pretend to like you when they want something. They won't take out in public or you meet the family they will never settle with you they just want to treat it like some joy ride of using. They may sweet talk you into thinking they will marry you but never show effect or blue prints don't fall for the trick. Because they don't want to really meet you, they want you to move yourself. Being in a trap can be hard to leave. They won't help financially so think before you do anything. Never just move in with anyone or relocate fast because the person may not be the same when first talking to them. They could have nasty behavior that could kick you out to the curve, then what are you going to do? Good to secure your life, have your own income and have backup save funds so that friends or family are there when you need them. Human services will only pay for ticket for train or bus get you home if you don't have the funds but you need to tell the situation that you got in messy thing was what they said. Ones looking for a rush move in the ones abusive and more like to be predators. Not all people are abusers but ones don't rush you take the time to show the colors show you out in public so on. Why it takes time to get to know someone. If you have a problem with your situation that your responsibility is to get yourself out now one can do for you.They will bark orders too quickly if you don't do what they want they will find another girl do it right in front of you just to get to you yes they are manipulative. Don't settle just for anyone be very very selective.