Is fear a kink?

House Talion​(dom male) • Apr 11, 2025

Yes, but depends on what you fear.npersonally my partners fear being pregnant, thus I cum inside them every time.

lunamuse​(sub female) • Apr 12, 2025

I have quite the fear kink. I love being afraid, but not in general. I love the feigned fear of my partner mostly

New slut owner​(dom male) • May 2, 2025

I think fear works in very well with power play, from a Dom perspective at least.

My slut does not do anal. She had a bad experience years before she became my property. Now, she knows I intend to fuck her ass some time, but she trusts me. When I have her bound, ass in the air, I whisper to her that her ass is mine and I am going to take it dry. I test her trust. Yes she fears that I won't be able to resist. No, I would never rape her, so it won't happen that way.

So yes, it very much arouses me when I am in full dom mode. Can't say for sure if it arouses her, but in full dom mode, its happening when I want. At worst it builds the trust.

Flames • May 7, 2025

As a submissive male
fear is both, for me and addiction as well as a kink, intertwined with a fetish
Fire play fetish, that is being topped by a female Dominant the threat insanely thrilling, no it's not for everyone that's for
Sure, but what is, and someone mentioned trust that is a major must have.
Yes I believe fear is a kink,
Edge play also involves fear,
I think that is sways more to the fetish
Label though.

celti warrior​(dom male) • May 9, 2025

I don't have the experience that this other lady has but I can tell you firsthand the military has used fear as a tool to train their troops and boot camp for starts. I was an adrenaline junkie my whole life until the adrenaline just ran out after many decades I live for that thrill every time I went on a dangerous job I had to climb on top of a 200 story power plant . Horror movies give you a little fear like you knew and that also gives you an adrenaline rush and also gives men something else they need testosterone once that adrenaline and that testosterone starts going down that's when the pills come in but it also changes the the personality I noticed in a lot of the apprentices I trained some welding or something I always knew there was a risk I might fall up and that gave me a rush same thing with pain it's very similar

LatexHer​(dom male) • May 9, 2025

While living in Illinois, I used to frequent a few private clubs. Being married and bringing my submissive wife along, it made it easy to get to know some of the women there. It's been years, and I am now single, but I remain a Dom.
*** An inquiry there, by women that appeared more than once was, did we engage in Rape Play?
I would CAUTION anyone interested or those who desire to live out this fantasy, to remember - NO means NO, and any scene that includes CNC must be well discussed and approved by all parties for the safety of all. Nobody wants to be arrested or go to jail over adult sexual games!

If you consider engaging in Rape Play, take the advice from me, which I gained from a criminal attorney friend of mine.
1. Have the woman who wishes to engage in this fantasy clearly write out what she wants, desires to perform or have performed on her, by whom, and for how long.

2. Take a video in which she looks at the camera, explaining her desires, fantasies, and subject matter. Discuss her pain tolerance, include whippings, oral, anal and vaginal action, finally the duration.

3. Continue forward, showing yourself as the DOM, along with any other man or woman who will participate in the video, along with their expected performance!

4. Finally, it must be explained in writing that there will be NO Financial transaction expected from any party.

I know that all of this sounds ridiculous, and even cinematic, but if it fully avoids a court procedure, its worth every penny and time.

### Rape play scenes can and do provide endorphine rushes for the victim and yes, some for other purveyors as well.
Personally, the best one I ever set up thus far was NOT scheduling the place or time the FAKE abduction took place. Just the agreement that it would be within the next three days. My former Towncar had a big trunk, and a ball gag with handcuffs did the rest. Three wonderful, enjoyable days, having a woman chained up in my basement, for all parties.
Yes, she enjoyed it as much as we did. She reflected that grabbing her as she was grocery shopping, was not expected, and that she was glad to know it was me who took her. Even had another such scene with a friend of hers about 5 months later that year, she too enjoyed her 1 nites stay in my basement dungeon.