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The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

intenseoldman​(dom male)
1 month ago • Dec 11, 2025
intenseoldman​(dom male) • Dec 11, 2025
Anna Lynn wrote:
In my personal experience, western society in general, both men and women ( not all but many I have met and dealt with) do not value and even despise submissive women (and men.)

We haven't lost our femininity but it does show up differently depending if the woman is hiding her submissive nature.

On the other side, there are those that despise "feminist" women. I prefer feminine/submissive women but I don't despise women who aren't. I respect people's choices, and despise those who don't. This discussion keeps reminding me of how limited women's choice were, back when they couldn't even vote and how depressing it could be to be so repressed. It reminds me of "The Story of an Hour" ... not all women are cut out to be what society expects and should not be punished for not conforming to the norm, but society should not be constantly bending a woman's will either. There's a balance.