SirsBabyDoll(sub female){π+β}
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2 months ago •
Nov 10, 2025
@Anna Lynn,
I told you Brats were viewed by many on this site as pariahs. The above comment is an example. She is entitled to her own thoughts and feelings. I don't know what her previous experiences are but whatever they are, they have affected her in such a way that she is no longer able to be open minded about how other choose to experience BDSM. It is *MY* opinion that the adage of "Your kink is not my kink but your kink is ok" is not part of her mindset. To me, the language used is the type of gatekeeping language that I was referring to. The emotional invalidation ( https://psychcentral.com/health/reasons-you-and-others-invalidate-your-emotional-experience#what-is-it ) expressed above is a form of abuse, which, since her post was commending you on your own concern for possible abuse by the submissive, is rather ironic, don't you think? |
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Anna Lynn(sub female)
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2 months ago •
Nov 10, 2025
Thank you for acknowledging my attempt to warn and show concern for the original OP.
As far as I am concerned my post stands. Thank you for your concern for me. However, trust me when I say that I am MORE than capable of taking care of things when the need arises. Just ask anyone who has pushed me into telling them off. Lastly, this is my safe haven. My refuge from the dramas and trials of this world and as I sit here in this hospital bed, it is even more so. I have absolutely no issues with anyone. It does not matter to me what someoneβs kink is as long as I am not dating them and they don't involve me. I simply want to be a peace with everyone. I find it is the best way to live. This thread is dead. Could the plug be pulled please. |
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SirsBabyDoll(sub female){π+β}
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2 months ago •
Nov 11, 2025
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