*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

ItsCircadian​(dom male){Shadowrave} • Aug 25, 2021

Hi Everyone!! I'm excited to introduce myself and get out there a bit. Not only am I new to this website (loving it so far), but I am also new to my kinks. Meaning that I've always known of my inherent dominancy, and wish to one day serve as Master or Dominant in a relationship. Now, however, is the first time I've taken action to pursue these desires in real life.

I've played with light domination and bondage in prior relationships but found myself consistently wanting more. I took time to learn, and explore myself and what it is I truly want in a partner. With that, I seek to meet and interact with people with a variety of kinks and fantasies related to, or in some form neighboring, a dom/sub or master/slave relationship.

Ideally, you are female, straight, and somewhere in North America (But you really can be anywhere! ). I envision a partnership where we connect in and out of the bedroom, but the play dynamics are present more often than not. I'm chivalrous, reciprocal, and respectful. We can cuddle, eat ice cream, and watch movies just as frequently as sexual activities (though preferably the lines are heavily blurred between sex and all else, free-use style).

I'll talk your ear off about a range of subjects from the overly academic (I'm an up-incoming neuroscientist) to the silly and playful (I love to laugh and make others laugh, call it a pass-time). I believe the Marvel Cinematic Universe is a masterpiece of our global generation, and humans certainly don't deserve the love balls called dogs. I enjoy many types of music (Hip/Hop, Jazz, R&b, alternative) but will never turn off a song that can get my head bobbing. I play PC video games and the occasional Forza Horizon on Xbox. I like to keep my YouTube algorithm on its toes by binging existential and experiential videos of our place in the solar system then quickly switch to a music production tutorial (I make instrumentals in my spare time, among other things).

I will always be attentive and listen to you actively, I will care for you and push you to be a better person. We will adapt, grow, and explore ourselves together. I don't claim to be an experienced dom or master, but you can be an experienced sub. I will surprise you with gifts and make you quiver to my touch. I'll also cook you breakfast (big fan of cooking) and twirl your hair. On my profile is a little more information on sexy details I can't wait to discuss with you. I firmly assert and promise that there is much much more to me than is appropriate for this introductory post. And I did my best to provide a speed dating-Esque snapshot of the wildly dynamic and diversified set of activities I call my life.

Ideally, we would talk and get to know each other online then given how that goes we can discuss options to pursue things further (or not, either way, is fine I just want to meet people!!!). If you just want to be an online friend that's welcomed too!! Whether you want to chat about your hobbies, your latest crazy customer at work, where you want to go on vacation (I can confirm travel is food for the soul and we will embark on many adventures together, should be joining up), or how you like to be teased with a blindfold on, I cant wait to hear from you!!

Lastly, I will try my best to update my profile with more useful information for any prospective friends or playmates. But I promise the best way to make a connection is to just start chatting and see where it goes!

ESPear • Aug 25, 2021

Hello there! I am completely new to the BDSM scene but have been passively exposed to it for a few years via porn.

I'm here to learn about BDSM and possibly about myself as well.

Right now I would say I'm a switch leaning towards dom.

Hello

Ren857​(sub female) • Aug 25, 2021

I've been away from this for a couple years but I am back.

I miss being dominated!!! My sub is sad .

So i am back!

Villanelle​(staff) • Aug 26, 2021

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Imabitch • Aug 27, 2021

Hi I am Julie. Shy till you get to know me.

Not new, just been away

blueboidragon​(dom trans man) • Aug 27, 2021

Hey my name is Patrick, I'm a transguy. I'm a dom, but I also will respect your honorifics and relationship as I ask you to do the same.

Thanks

Master Raf​(dom male) • Aug 27, 2021

Some nice people here. Welcome .

fandan • Aug 28, 2021

Hi There,

I am a recent 'convert' to BDSM & Kink.

I say 'convert', but its always been inside me, I just hadn't realised it yet.

I met someone recently who is a sub, and we have made an amazing connection.

So I have done my research, unravelled the myths and I have to say i'm head over heels with the concept.

I have a induction and training plan outline, I have filled out my Kinks menu, and I am planning a wee presentation of a couple of things which which I will give her to identify of mine.

Ive got a contract planned, and I have even thought of scenes which will encapsulate all of the above.

Id happily take any advice from any experienced Dom's or subs (actually a female sub's view would be really helpful. Fellow Dom' feel free to chime in to

I would also like to seek some advice on how to be a noob dom with a more experienced sub? My instinct is that as part of the training and contract I should 'remove' her previous Dom's from her mind, however is this acceptable and respectful.

Also any tips on increasing the build up of trust is good. I do intend on laying all my kinks out for her to read and understand, and seeking to get her trust via me exposing my desires first, however I get the strong feeling that she has a vulnerability at this stage.

Finally, and this is the one that I am kinda struggling with - how do you remain charming boyfriend material AND sufficiently masterful at the same time? This is further exacerbated by the fact that we havent met yet. Im considering separating the Kink chat from the vanilla chat, and im also considering suggesting that the Dom/sub relationship should be apparent in the Kink Chat.

Am I on the right track?

Admin apologies if aspects of this post are better suited to other subforums, im happy to transfer this post to a more suitable subforum.

FD

Curious Mind​(sub male) • Aug 28, 2021

Hello
I am new to this website. BDSM has piqued my interest for many of my years. I would be interested in being a sub/slave for an online Mistress. Unsure of all requirements of a slave - I have done online research regarding slave/sub responsibilities and also researched FLR and also possible slave registration. Hope to meet some wonderful like minded people here!

Jareth​(dom male) • Aug 29, 2021

Hello,

I am Jareth. I just found this thread so I decided to introduce myself. I am a man in my mid-forties who enjoys reading and writing about the lifestyle. I am not looking for anything in particular right now and am hoping to be a part of this community. Please feel free to stop by and say hello.