Appeal and Lack of Experience

EnforcedBliss​(dom male) • Nov 2, 2018

It was very diligent of you to provide the immediate refresher.

Fate • Nov 3, 2018

Such great advice has already been given. For me, as a sub, the very fact that you’ve asked the question answers the question IMHO.

It shows that you’re conscientious and has the well-being of the sub in the forefront of your mind. Also that you’re safety conscious and aware of your limitations. You seem self-aware of what you need to learn as well as willing to put the necessary work and time into it.

Humility
Teachability
Willingness to grow
Safety conscious
Sub-first mentality
Eagerness to learn
Etc.
Etc.
Etc.

Each sub is different, but for me, those things trump “experience” any day. Keep in mind I’m new. So take my advice with a grain of salt.

Fate

EnforcedBliss​(dom male) • Nov 3, 2018

Thank you very much Fate. Reassurance is always welcome lol.

Take care