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SageFlame​(sub female)
3 years ago • May 6, 2021

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SageFlame​(sub female) • May 6, 2021
simplylaura wrote:
SageFlame wrote:
**Amygdala** still functions same as always.

Opinions are not right or wrong they are simply opinions. We are all here because we divert from societal norms. Not because we conform.



Yes but/and... Opinions can be things like toppings on pizza or about specific political bills, football teams, etc. Someone's existence as abnormal is not an opinion. Nor is the existence of a spectrum of sexes. I'm all for different opinions but attack my "normality" and it's on like Donkey Kong. (To be clear, I'm abnormal af but my existence is shockingly normal).



When it is made personal, yes it's an attack. But the basic seat of thought is based on associations/ formation of opinion including what is "normal".

Normal or what we think as normal or abnormal are illusions.

Acceptance of ourselves is the only acceptance worth its weight.

Norms were formed based on agreement. It's a shame when they are used as weapons of judgement. Intentional or perceived they have the same impact.

Norms are not the meat of our existence. Truth is....and that brings me back to acceptance. Your truth.

We can't decide what someone's truth is anymore than we can decide what is normal for someone else.
L a r s​(dom male)
3 years ago • May 6, 2021
L a r s​(dom male) • May 6, 2021
We are a sexually dimorphic species. Reproduction requires a male sex organ, and a female sex organ. That's not up for debate, and not on a spectrum.

Are people on a spectrum? Sure. People complicate everything. But your godson, and everyone else, is the result of heterosexual sex. That makes heterosexual sex, by definition, normative.
That's not a judgement call. That's not saying it's good or bad. It just is.

But yall have already made up your mind about just about anything I could possibly say, or think or do.
Have a nice night folks.
shahh
3 years ago • May 6, 2021
shahh • May 6, 2021
@L a r s​(dom male)

Reproduction requires a sperm and an egg and does not need to have anything to do with heterosexual sex. Perhaps your understand or use of terms is getting in the way of the point you're attempting to make?

To call humans sexually dimorphic is an oversimplification and incorrect. Historically, many cultures have chosen to use 2 genders (man and woman) to categorize folks at birth based on external sex organs, but this also isn't clear across the board. First Nations in Canada for instance have always recognized a two-spirit category as well. That's just one example of many cultures who have moved beyond (or never adhered to) dimorphic and incorrect simplification.

Humans have at least 6 variations on the sex a person can be:
X – Roughly 1 in 2,000 to 1 in 5,000 people (Turner’s )
XX – Most common form of female
XXY – Roughly 1 in 500 to 1 in 1,000 people (Klinefelter)
XY – Most common form of male
XYY – Roughly 1 out of 1,000 people
XXXY – Roughly 1 in 18,000 to 1 in 50,000 births

Gender expression....well that's a whole other can of worms and evolves, sometimes slowly and sometimes rapidly as it is now with our ability to share information with less oppression and frankly, far less fear. So, it's opening an avenue to help individuals of all 6 known sexes to better express who they are through various gender expressions.

Heterosexual sex *might* be the most commonly practiced form of sex and has been categorized as "the norm" by those in power. But as the wonderful Mrs Hannah Gadsby would say "those that wrote the rules" (*cough couch white men with power and money) wrote them for their own benefits wether accurate or in this case ...clearly not complete. It'll be very interesting to see in 25, 50...100 years what the "norm" will be considered.

Cheers!
mab{His}
3 years ago • May 6, 2021
mab{His} • May 6, 2021
sissyboidoinny wrote:
I was willing to die for my Country in the Military, but I would have to know the circumstances of the threat to my wife. I am certain my wife would not die for me! She has had 3 black lovers and I lived with that. So, I doubt I would risk my life for her.


What the actual fuck is this racist shit?!!!!
mab{His}
3 years ago • May 6, 2021
mab{His} • May 6, 2021
L a r s wrote:
We are a sexually dimorphic species. Reproduction requires a male sex organ, and a female sex organ. That's not up for debate, and not on a spectrum.

Are people on a spectrum? Sure. People complicate everything. But your godson, and everyone else, is the result of heterosexual sex. That makes heterosexual sex, by definition, normative.
That's not a judgement call. That's not saying it's good or bad. It just is.

But yall have already made up your mind about just about anything I could possibly say, or think or do.
Have a nice night folks.


See the problem with your view is that it isnt valid, like at all. Moot point after (the same) moot point is being made here!

If you look at a something from only one angle, you miss the whole. I would suggest you get out more and see the world. It might help you see the whole better.