Cello Trance{for You}
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4 days ago •
Dec 17, 2024
I haven't read everyone's reply, but I've read a few. I don't think there is a rule. I think it's completely up to the individual. I also know there are very strict role followers in this lifestyle. I'm not one of of them. I usually describe myself as a happy hippie cello playing Hypno daddy Dom… So I'm already kind of outside of the lines. I like to get a sense of the person and they got a sense of me.
I will say, though, and you probably already know this, so I don't need to say anything, but you do wanna exercise caution against Dom's that approach you in demand things right away… For instance, that you call them master right away or send them photos of yourself… That is the only thing I would caution you against. I think the rest of the time, just follow your instincts, do what feels right to you. |
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MissMelisandre(dom female)
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4 days ago •
Dec 17, 2024
I don't mind if boys approach me first. Be humble and sweet. If you feel shy or nervous about approaching an older woman it's ok to admit that in your approach. I've met boys here and on traditional dating apps. It's good to openly admit they are looking for older women right in their profile.
This only works if your profile is completely filled out, well worded and you have several really clear pictures of your face. Do not reach out to an older woman on any platform if you have a blank profile/ avatar. That's considered bad form. You deserve to be insulted or ignored 😭 If you have an encounter with an older woman in public and you have chemistry, hand her a card with your name and phone number on it, smile and say you are very pretty and I would love for you to text me sometime. If a young man pulled this move on me in public, I would absolutely text him. I do this myself. If I deal with an attractive guy in real life I give him my card and tell him to text me. Be brave! Final thought: you are not guaranteed a relationship with an older woman just because you want one. You can follow my advice, do everything else "right" and yet not succeed. At that point, take the L and leave her alone. |
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I'mME
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4 days ago •
Dec 17, 2024
MissMelisandre wrote: I don't mind if boys approach me first. Be humble and sweet. If you feel shy or nervous about approaching an older woman it's ok to admit that in your approach. I've met boys here and on traditional dating apps. It's good to openly admit they are looking for older women right in their profile.
This only works if your profile is completely filled out, well worded and you have several really clear pictures of your face. Do not reach out to an older woman on any platform if you have a blank profile/ avatar. That's considered bad form. You deserve to be insulted or ignored 😭 If you have an encounter with an older woman in public and you have chemistry, hand her a card with your name and phone number on it, smile and say you are very pretty and I would love for you to text me sometime. If a young man pulled this move on me in public, I would absolutely text him. I do this myself. If I deal with an attractive guy in real life I give him my card and tell him to text me. Be brave! Final thought: you are not guaranteed a relationship with an older woman just because you want one. You can follow my advice, do everything else "right" and yet not succeed. At that point, take the L and leave her alone. @ Miss Melisandre, I think this excellent advice could be applied to many situations in life. ☺️ |
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