nuli(sub female){Unkolared}
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3 years ago •
Dec 6, 2020
Re: BDSM without the DSM - thoughts? The Thinker wrote: A chat room discussion last night prompted my thinking on this topic. Someone presented the position that a good sub or slave would never be in a position where they need punishment, as long as the Dom/Master has taken the time to train them.
Interesting position. So I played that out in mind mind. In an ideal scenario, it is quite possible that a slave/sub never needs any discipline at all. Going by the traditional kinks - BDSM - that takes DSM out. Would that be a satisfying relationship for you? I am a Sadist, and I know that it would not be. Thoughts, please? Playing and punishment are two very different things. As a slave I rarely need punishment and if I do it's not enjoyed. Now play time is a totally different thing. Please by all means whip cane cut etc and let me beg to hit subspace. |
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AveryA(sub female)
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3 years ago •
Dec 6, 2020
Without it, it's just kinky vanilla.
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Byrdie(switch female){rl only}
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3 years ago •
Dec 25, 2020
Re: BDSM without the DSM - thoughts? The Thinker wrote: So I played that out in mind mind. In an ideal scenario, it is quite possible that a slave/sub never needs any discipline at all. Going by the traditional kinks - BDSM - that takes DSM out. Would that be a satisfying relationship for you?
I am a Sadist, and I know that it would not be. Thoughts, please? To me, as well, the “B” stands for “bondage”. Sounds like a relationship between a rigger and / or rope top and a rope bunny / bottom: purely physical play, possibly some R&D scenes or maybe photo shoots, possibly attending rope dojos or exhibitions together, maybe even finishing and dyeing their own rope? Or other sorts of bondage: predicament, chains and cuffs, mummification, hobble skirts, vacuum bags, bondage sheath gloves, mental, perhaps chastity, etc. |
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Miki(masochist female)
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3 years ago •
Dec 25, 2020
As a Maso-girl the "punishment" is the pleasure. As for just bondage, that ain't too bad if done right. Personally I like the humiliation aspect of it, especially when in a group of like mionded people and I'm tied up and "on display"-- where anyone can grope the hell out of me.
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