Obedience

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 6, 2024

They feel safe and at home they release the feeling that the trust vulnerability comes out that they serve at will ready to be ravished with delight. But everyone deserve to be a good treat sub/dom.
https://xhamster.com/videos/impossible-to-control-chapter-03-xhB07ir

I agree with all everyone does what feels for them how they feel with that person to be Obedient.

TwinkleEyes{N/A} • Dec 6, 2024

Sorry Lambs. Didn’t mean to take over. I’m in maso drop from having daily consensual beatings for a couple of weeks. I handled this inappropriately. I appreciate Minx comments and apologize for 🤮 low serotonin emotions here.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 6, 2024

Twinkle lots of after care and a spa day and lavished.

lambsone • Dec 6, 2024

I agree with Softnote. Take care of yourself.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 6, 2024

Indeed https://www.pinterest.com/pin/7107311906091169/
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/2181499814419449/

Cello Trance{for You} • Dec 6, 2024

Yes. Aftercare is extremely important ...To leave Someone in a heightened sexual state is almost like having too much caffeine or something like that. You have to be able to bring someone back.

jcgb​(sub male) • Dec 6, 2024

So, I have a bit of a question concerning obedience. How to handle an online Dom/sub relationship? I am getting more under the "control" of my Mistress, so how do I ensure the obedience? Must I video every task assigned, for example? I'm sure I will get commands from her soon, but how do others deal with that aspect?

Sweet Minx​(sub female) • Dec 6, 2024

This will likely vary from dynamic to dynamic. There are no set rules. Some may have trust and some may want to see proof. Think about what you are comfortable with as well.

jcgb​(sub male) • Dec 6, 2024

Makes sense, thank you.

TwinkleEyes{N/A} • Dec 6, 2024

@jcgb "Must I video every task assigned, for example? I'm sure I will get commands from her soon, but how do others deal with that aspect?"

Very good questions. Asking them directly to your D type will help answer how pleasing her will work. The suggestions I have are more about making yourself feel comfortable with your choices.

-Always be transparently honest with your thoughts/feelings. This shows respectful obedience towards building mutual trust.
-Learn what your needs, wants, and desires are. There is a difference between them. Communicate clearly and regularly what they are. These change over time in each of us. This will help alleviate any resentment towards negative feelings that may arise when performing tasks that are uncomfortable and/or unwelcome. Built up resentment can sink a dynamic.
-Use creative ways to fulfill tasks. Making it fun and enjoyable for you both.
-Breath, just breath. 3-5 deep breaths can help slow anxiety down and help someone to think more clearly. When worried about performing a task properly deep breathing my help with the anxiety.

May your mutual kinky journey be a very pleasurable enjoyment for you both.