New Sub

New Sub

dani102​(sub female) • Oct 20, 2018

So I made a not so good decision that I new instantly after it happen, that I shouldn't have done it. As a new sub, I know that I need some more information on meeting and contacting a dom. Does anyone have any recommendations for new sub to read on? It can be forums on here, a website, or a even a book.

Kara​(sub female){Dark Roast} • Oct 20, 2018

https://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1529983943&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&keywords=s%26m+101+book&dpPl=1&dpID=41ykLD-ucJL&ref=plSrch

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0964596008/ref=pd_aw_sim_14_1?ie=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=2P5MNS2BJFQKCKTTCQXJ&dpPl=1&dpID=51XK7KHV5RL

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1890159352/ref=pd_aw_fbt_14_img_3?ie=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=5P40E71JSYVP605YCXK6


https://www.amazon.com/Different-Loving-Sexual-Dominance-Submission/dp/0679769560/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1529984544&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&keywords=different+loving+the+world+of+sexual+dominance+and+submission


Articles and websites able to help you decide what kind or sub you are, and to keep safe and learn about the lifestyle.

Submissives Guide - https://submissiveguide.com/

Submissives Guide You Tube channel - https://www.youtube.com/user/subguide

New Submissive articles here plenty to read - https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth,%20fundamentals/series/series-novice-submissives-start-here

Keeping Safe – Red Flags Dangers and what to look for - https://submissiveguide.com/safety/articles/10-red-flags-of-bad-or-abusive-dominants

Saftey Articles - https://submissiveguide.com/safety.1

New Submissive Article - http://www.katekinsey.com/advice-to-the-newbie-submissive.html

New Submissive Articles - http://sistersinsubmission.blogspot.co.uk/2008/01/training-for-new-submissive.html

New Submissive Article - http://sagacitygroup.net/art/stories/emotionsofasubmissive

What type of submissive am I - https://www.goodreads.com/author_blog_posts/3980035-what-type-of-submissive-are-you

Another article on Type of submissive - https://www.kinkly.com/2/8188/sex-tips/bdsm/what-kind-of-submissive-are-you

CapnRick​(dom male) • Oct 20, 2018

WOW! Well done, Kara ! I don't see how anyone could post a more complete and inclusive answer to this question than you just offered. Clearly took a good while to put all that together in one package... Just a great response!

Kara​(sub female){Dark Roast} • Oct 20, 2018

Thank you. I keep these links on hand. I have copied and pasted this list many a time.

dani102​(sub female) • Oct 21, 2018

Kara thank you for the information. I have been looking for some information from books to videos, but I haven't been able to find anything with good information.

DallasSub4You​(sub female) • Oct 21, 2018

Wow!!!
Kara!!! What a great set of resources. Thank you for putting those all together in one place!!

Kara​(sub female){Dark Roast} • Oct 21, 2018

The best resource is women who have been in D/s relationships before. Many of the experienced submissives on the site are happy to talk about their experiences and relationships. Read profiles and don't be afraid to contact anyone, even those who may seem a little intimidating. We were all new once.

Satindragon • Oct 22, 2018

Great job Kara!

MasterBear​(other butch) • Oct 28, 2018

@Kara

I have been forwarding your list to new folks--
It doesn't get any better then this!!!!!

Kara​(sub female){Dark Roast} • Oct 28, 2018

Probably explains why it's been a few weeks since I was contacted by new subs with questions. Totally okay with that list being passed on.