Finding an IRL BDSM community near West Virginia.

Finding an IRL BDSM community near West Virginia.

labyrinth​(switch male) • Nov 4, 2018

Hello, ive been scouring the internet through dead links and pages for a while now, as well as visiting adult stores looking for leads to no avail. If anyone had any tips on finding a community or if anyone knows about an accepting community please let me know. Ive always liked BDSM but im new to this aspect of it. New to online as well so i hope i posted this in the right place.

Bunnie • Nov 4, 2018

Hi @ labyrinth, welcome, nice to meet you
There are many different opinions around how to go about things. What I have found works for me is a combination. I like FetLife as a way of interacting with my local bdsm community, and for finding events and skillshares to go to. I love The Cage for chatting with awesome people and learning from and developing friendships with people all around the world. I recently joined another site called Alt, which seems to have quite a lovely community as well. I’m not quite sure how other people use these sites... but that’s kind of what works for me so far. Hope that helps

*I’m unsure, and apologise if I’m not supposed to name other sites*

labyrinth​(switch male) • Nov 8, 2018

Thank you very much for the recommendations! I've seen some local events listed at reasonable distances, so all i have to do now is find the time and courage to leave my comfort zone haha. I hope the majority of the people i interact with in the future as a helpful and kind.