Is it hard for some to connect this way(online)?
2 weeks ago • 06/26/2020 9:18 am
BabyTgirl(sub female) • 06/26/2020 9:18 am
Hi! I was wondering if anyone gets nervous about online connections? I know the simplest way to my problem would be just go to clubs and meet ups, sad thing is there are never any in my state or area that I know of.
I think my struggle is a combination of a few things: the first being anxiety. It can be nerve wracking talking to people over the internet. Sure for some being behind a screen is comforting, but for some of us it leaves us nervous of being taken advantage of.
Another is my need to observe. I'm sure those who are in relationships online know how hard it can be to determine someone attitude and emotions over text. And alot of people dont have any pictures of themselves on their profiles (mine included, just until I get more comfortable) so being able to determine whether someone is genuine or not is difficult. That can be scary.
But it's not all bad. I've enjoyed chatting with people and making friends! As well as finding people willing to answer all my questions. I think websites like these are an amazing opportunity for first timers. But they also give predators something to hide behind.
Anyone else feel this way sometime?
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