What Do you think is a good way of being an online Master?

What Do you think is a good way of being an online Master?

MountainThinker​(neither male) • Sep 18, 2020

I made my research about BDSM in a bizarre way. From porn. But How someone can succeed in the online sphere?. Any thoughts please post thanks.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} • Sep 18, 2020

Porn, certainly isn't a good representation of what BDSM is all about. It is just the sexual aspect. And a lot of times, it is extreme. You can succeed by learning from others who have experience, learning from reading blogs and the forums in the Cage. There is a lot of info out there and a lot of folks around who would be willing to help you on your journey /if you have questions.

MrFulmen • Sep 18, 2020

Reading, as Devotedsub suggested, is a great idea. Beyond the blogs and forums, there is a robust literature of nonfiction, educational books written by real practitioners--to clear up all the fantastical ideas you've been seeing in porn. Read The Heart of Dominance or The New Topping Book or Sensuous Magic (that one's old, but great).

Then: participate in community and make friends. You're off to a good start posting here.

Going straight to the personal ads with a laser focus on finding a partner *right now* is a recipe for frustration. Folks get bitter and burned out that way. But if you find an online home for yourself in some forum or chatroom, with folks who you enjoy talking with and gradually get to know, then you've got a comfortable home base for learning about BDSM and meeting people. And with luck, eventually one of those people you meet will be a compatible partner.

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truckstopjunkie • Sep 18, 2020

Beat Lovenes to making BDSM GEAR that you can operate from your phone. For that aspect of it. Other than that you would have to have a willing participant or else they will become bored. . Devotions.