Switch

Switch

gypsycait • Sep 23, 2020

Hi all, new to this site and really into the lifestyle. An ex and I played around a bit while we were together, but that was two years ago. I was a sub then, and prefer being a sub now.

Flash forward to now, several men I am chatting with have expressed the need for me to be able to switch into a dom if the time arises.

Should I? Should I change who I am to please someone I’m not even sure I care about? I feel like this is a true sub question, but again, I am new to this world.

I should also add, I never dream of being a dom. I’m always a sub in my fantasies.

House Talion​(dom male) • Sep 23, 2020

Between fantasies and reality you'll find your true self somewhere in the middle. Never be something you're not for anyone even if there is some connection or something felt, but if the time arises and it's something you enjoy theres the option to switch. If it doesn't feel right then it's probably not, no matter how much you may trust the other person