Starting out as a sub

Starting out as a sub

POC​(dom male) • Oct 25, 2020

Hi there, I've recently decided to try out the BDSM lifestyle and think I'm best suited to be a sub. Any advice on how to start?

nuli​(sub female){Unkolared} • Oct 25, 2020

Read read and then read some more! There are unlimited ways to live in this lifestyle.

Some good reads Philip Miller and 1 more
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism

There are tons of pages here in cage and other bdsm sites.

Taramafor​(sub male) • Oct 30, 2020

Consider positive ways of being put in line with affection, even when force is employed. If nothing else it teaches you how to make the best of the worst. And the worst can happen when life tosses you lemons. Here it's not only a safer environment (or at least more controlled), but you may come to enjoy and crave the affection through being made to comply. Provided there's the right incentive. It tends to be affection/sex in general, so don't worry about it too much.

Look for those that act. Not those that SAY they act.