POC(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Oct 24, 2020
Starting out as a sub
Hi there, I've recently decided to try out the BDSM lifestyle and think I'm best suited to be a sub. Any advice on how to start?
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nuli(sub female){Unkolared}
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5 years ago •
Oct 24, 2020
Read read and then read some more! There are unlimited ways to live in this lifestyle.
Some good reads Philip Miller and 1 more Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism There are tons of pages here in cage and other bdsm sites. |
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Taramafor(sub male)
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5 years ago •
Oct 29, 2020
Consider positive ways of being put in line with affection, even when force is employed. If nothing else it teaches you how to make the best of the worst. And the worst can happen when life tosses you lemons. Here it's not only a safer environment (or at least more controlled), but you may come to enjoy and crave the affection through being made to comply. Provided there's the right incentive. It tends to be affection/sex in general, so don't worry about it too much.
Look for those that act. Not those that SAY they act. |
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