Boo78(sub female)
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3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
Oh my God me in the wilds of Wicklow overnight
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Online now
SubtleHush(sub female)
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3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
I have never met any potential Dom in private. It is a deal breaker. When you are talking on the phone or online there are always aspects of that other person that you've assumed. Or things you just decided about them that were in your mind and not automatically true. So meeting publicly is important.
Anyone who insists otherwise would not get to meet me. Better to be overly cautious and not need it than to be too cavalier and regret it. I've met 100's of people over these 22 years. Not all were dates of course but most were a little different than I thought they'd be. Even a girlfriend who I spoke to for over a year. Only when she showed up drunk for a visit was it obvious that she was a raging alcoholic and cringe worthy in all she did. My apologies if this didn't fit your length requirement. But then again, you don't get to dictate how we respond. H* |
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KinkyJ(dom male)
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3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
A tent? There is a difference between a cheeky play in the woods and camping out.
No way, how are you going to have room to swing a flogger around in a tent? You're going to end up with it collapsing on top of you and that will ruin any remaining street cred for the Dom. It would be a one of those embarrassing moments of life like getting caught as a teenager with your girlfriend in bed by your mum or getting down and dirty in a hotel room with a sub just when some idiot sets off the fire alarm and you have to evacuate. Maybe he was thinking the cold would perk up your nipples and there would be plenty of rope handy? For that I say use the ice cube tray in the freezer and maybe buy some silkier rope for use on special occasions. I wonder where the second meet would be? |
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Maxorde{Not lookin}
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3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
Wow! Ummmmm....gonna go with nope!
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mab{Thiers }
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3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
Bondage My Heart wrote: Maybe he is Injun..
 ♀️Racist much?!!! |
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Literate Lycan(dom male)
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3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
Initially . . . I feel like this is possibly the beginning of either a really tense psychological thriller where the girl winds up in the woods with a psycho . . . or a really hot porn where the girl can be as loud as she wants . . .
Either way, NO! You stated it pretty clearly in your opening post here: "If you were meeting your 'one' for the first time would any of you think it would be acceptable or appropriate to meet in a tent???" . . . and by all indications from you and LaVieEnRose, you might not be a tent type of girl - unless you're the cause of Him tenting . . . Sorry. That just seemed funny in my head. If you aren't an outdoorsy kind of tent girl, then maybe ask him why that's the option? And it might be because he doesn't have money and it's inexpensive, which is a consideration. Or he may be Paul Bunyan . . . I'd say if you have never (ever) actually met in person, then meet in person in public (for many reasons - many being safely). And if the chemistry works, then opt for where you feel comfortable - from the sounds of it, probably a nice hotel room (not a Motel 6). |
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| Quirkyrebel(sub female) |
3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
A tent! How amazing! Dom doesn't need to move to an actual house or apartment...
Frick. Who needs to meet at an actual park with friends, the bookstore/library for a nice chat, or even a mall where everyone is watching you hold hands? That's just not normal is it? You'd rather walk into a clearing and get tied to a chair for torture. Become a ghost at 24 maybe. Not even retire first. A tent is probably the safest place to sleepover with a sinister stranger, right? I want to turn on the news of the missing tent woman. Everything has a risk. But clearly thinking like primal prey is the better option. Without common sense or fear, huh? You should go shake hands with him! Tell me how your hookup went! Just leave out explicitness and add the stuff about positions and feelings? |
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| Defender(dom male) |
3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
Malice with intent.
Avoid. |
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Ms MaryJane{NOT LOOKIN}
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3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
Bondage My Heart wrote: Maybe he is Injun..
♀️Really? As an Indigenous Woman that is really offensive. Racial slurs even in jest are not cool. Especially for a minority that is fighting so hard to change the stereotype of their people. |
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DeviantLF(sub female)
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3 years ago •
Jan 2, 2021
Hard pass
I would say hard pass. IMO first meets should always be in a public setting with plenty of room.
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