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SubAtomic SubAtomic
5 years ago • Jan 8, 2021

Your Profile and Messages

SubAtomic • Jan 8, 2021
This has probably been up for discussion before but I keep hitting a particular wall here and want to say this:

Fill out your profile - as much as you are able. Some of us do read them.

Before you write to me - read my profile. Like really actually read it.

When you write to someone put some thought into it.
I get things like Hi. One word.
Or multiple paragraphs about what someone wants.
Send me an introduction that isn't your job description for me.

To those of you who do fill out your Profiles and are able to send complete sentences - Thank You !!!

Making friends here has been an enriching experience.
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Byrdie Byrdie​(switch female)​{rl only}Verified Account
5 years ago • Jan 9, 2021
Byrdie​(switch female)​{rl only}Verified Account • Jan 9, 2021
Someone I was flirting with online once told me how difficult it was to write a profile. I went through the email they’d send me and cobbled one together based on what they’d said they’d wanted, their motivation for wanting it, and what they had to offer.

They used that profile for years, even after moving to another state, and found a domme.

I think that many people who have blank or scarce profiles have likely written portions of one and sent these insights directly to complete strangers. I bet many never thought to assemble them as a profile, even though they’ve already done most of the writing already.

My advice: open a blank text file, check your kinky sent-mail, and start doing some copy and paste. You’ll likely see a real profile start to form.
SubAtomic SubAtomic
5 years ago • Jan 9, 2021
SubAtomic • Jan 9, 2021
Brilliant Byrdie ! Thank You for this - I hope someone finds it helpful. This is why I like this site so much. Helping one another.

Over the years I've taken photos for some of my subs so they have something decent to send out or post.