hello and safety

hello and safety

alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } • Nov 1, 2017

Hello and welcome to The Cage.

I would just like to say hi, and give you some suggestions on filling out aspects of your profile.

If you are new, the box marked "Limits" is where you note down things that you will not do or that you dislike. You should consider putting in basic limit's for now as you can always add or subtract to this list, as you grow in the Lifestyle and learn what activities you like or don't like.

For example this may be what your Limit section looks like initially;
"Underage, animals, and anything else illegal. More to come in the future"

Private messages (also known as PM's) come from other website users and are not necessarily just on your friend list.

May I suggest you do not answer your PM's unless..

1. You know the person.

or

2. The person has asked if they can PM you in the main chat page.

This is to save you from undue harassment or unwanted attention.

Please feel free to ask me any questions that you may have.
I will answer to the best of my knowledge or I will find the answer for you.

If and when you decide to find a person here (as a friend or partner), please take your time to get to know that person first, this is not a game for Lifestyle people, this is their way of life.

A good relationship doesn't happen overnight or in a few days, it should be built up over time (weeks or sometimes even months). Please be sure this is what you want, and do not be railroaded and pressured into something you dont want.

Most of all have fun, and please stay safe.

Jenks

Villanelle​(staff) • Nov 1, 2017

Some great advice..thanks for sharing it!

Ragnhildbrat​(sub female) • Nov 4, 2017

Love it Jenks. Great advises