best resources

best resources

OG Cupcake{4everAlone} • Jun 6, 2021

Hello fellow kinksters . Hope everyone is enjoying the day.

I am sure this question has been asked before however I would like resources that are not self written blogs, and not referring to the blogs here on the Cage.


I am looking for resources about BDSM and submission. I won’t say that I am completely inexperienced when it comes to kink but I am inexperienced when it comes to a true dynamic.

after several failed tries, i’d Like to take a step back and maybe getting some more knowledge in the process.

Appreciate any and all suggestions or comments - oh positive of course

House Talion​(dom male) • Jun 6, 2021

Google

OG Cupcake{4everAlone} • Jun 6, 2021

yes - thanks

MrFulmen • Jun 6, 2021

Yikes! Google can serve up some pretty awful misinformation when you ask it for kink resources.

Here's my getting-started resource list:
http://www.consensualdominance.com/resources/

MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} • Jun 7, 2021

I'm also rather fond of this ladies list. She has some great starting sites and materials for those just starting out. From many different sources from science based, educational to personal..and to top it off in other languages too! and also all FREE to use. No pay sites!

https://ranai.wordpress.com/kink-resources/en/blogs/

dollMaker​(dom male) • Jun 8, 2021

submissives guide website and you tube channel

loving bdsm website and you tube channel

Two fabulous resources.

MrFulmen • Jun 8, 2021

Stop stealing books. Stop sharing web pages that encourage stealing books.

OG Cupcake{4everAlone} • Jun 8, 2021

thank you for all the resources, i certainly have a good start with the suggestions from MrFulman and MissBonnie.

dollMaker thank you - i have used those two sites in the past

FlipSide1481​(dom male) • Jun 8, 2021

A good resource that helped me particularly the message boards.

https://www.gloriabrame.com/

Edit - Appears the messages boards no longer exist... Sad.

"Different Loving" is a great book and resource. Explore a wide spectrum of BDSM and kink culture.

Best Resources

ChampagneDomme​(dom female){N/A} • Jun 9, 2021

Some Men Are More Perfect Than Others by Merle Shain (Just because...)

The Correct Sadist (Google that one)

A Sexual Profile Of Men In Power (Google this one also.)