| poppyclaire(sub female) |
3 years ago •
Aug 10, 2021
Top Space?
I saw a post recently about sub space and have heard a lot about that throughout the community but do Doms experience anything like it? If so, what is it like and what fuels/triggers the feeling?
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ThisIsTheWay(dom male)
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3 years ago •
Aug 10, 2021
I know I do, I get very dominant and can control a scene better when in the right headspace. When I am not it is very difficult for me to be dominant or maintain a scene. My dominant side is mostly in the bedroom and outside I am not nearly as much
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VelvetGlove(dom male)
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3 years ago •
Aug 10, 2021
I like feeling grounded during play. I enjoy giving my partner the freedom to let go and fly free while I remain lucid and focused on the here and now. It's the same reason why I never drink during scenes. I like feeling my control over what's happening. It's actually a bit like a wellness exercise in being present in the moment and is very pleasurable, but I don't think of it as a different headspace.
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