Probably, I will repeat most what SBD said. She did wonderful job as awlays.
First you have to get to know your sub and create safe space for her. This way she will be able to open up to you more...
The hard part is to ensure that safe space is not affected. Once that happens, it will take a lot of work to bring it back. Worse case scenario it might never be recovered.
Brating, is the way we Brats communicate; comes in several stages...
At the begging We are checking can we trust you, are you strong to be able to "handle" our chaos. Are you consistent and constant in who you are.
As SBD stated most Brats are made and have experience traumas. It can start very early in life and those traumas are of emotional, mental, physical and sexual nature/abuse.
At that early stages when interacting with Brat(or hurt sub) it is imperative to show that it is all about the submissive and their needs.
For how long? It depends on the Brat/sub.
I will skip the playfull banter brating. It is all abt playfully outsmarting the brat...
I will add to it, that we also might brat in regards of given tasks...it is a playfull way of trying to get out of those but we will let it go and do them with a little delay.
The other forms of bratting...
When we feel we are being neglected. Of course life interfere. In certain situations it is understandable for us....sometimes in our overthiking mind that goes on overload and finding reasonable solution/explanation fails...and adding there is lack of communication between the Dom and the Brat.
That's when it happens
This is what SBD stated. Another way for bratting is when the trauma is triggered. What I call it, is when our chaos becomes unbalanced.
And it can even take something insignificant to trigger it.
We can Brat in order to make our Dom feel better.
Besides being a brat, I am a little and an empath. When life happens and it affects my Dom in a negative way, my little and empath will try to make him feel better first. If that doesn't work....then the brat will overtake.
Essentially, it is not taming the Brat but rather winning the Brat. Once we trust/belive you, we become very loyal and fearless in regards of our Doms and loved ones.
I hope it helps. Good luck!
FB