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CBT does it really hurt ..

Byrdie​(switch female)​{rl only}Verified Account
6 years ago • May 15, 2018
Byrdie​(switch female)​{rl only}Verified Account • May 15, 2018
From my limited understanding in topping for it, the possible answers are the same as with much of kink:

* define "pain"?
* hell yes, and it's awesome!
* hello no, and it's awesome!
* well, it gets my endorphins going.
* it puts me in sub / bottom space.
* it's proof of my trust in my top / dominant / grand poobah

... etc.

I know of one person who experienced pain from getting ballbusted, but never felt nausea - just pain, endorphin rushes, and subspace. It's probably different for a lot of people.
MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz}Verified Account
6 years ago • May 16, 2018
MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz}Verified Account • May 16, 2018
Byrdie wrote:
* it's proof of my trust in my top / dominant / grand poobah .


Hey! unfair I now need to clean coffee off my KB. thanks for the giggle that turned into a snort.
Miki​(masochist female)
6 years ago • Jul 28, 2018
Miki​(masochist female) • Jul 28, 2018
Thankfully I don't have those.. But since the quickest self defense technique they teach us when we're young as to fending off would-be rapists is to deliver unto him a swift kick in the "boys"--- thereby pretty much stopping his attack, --I'd say "ball busting" and sexual arousal wouldn't mix for most dudes.

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