6 days ago • Aug 4, 2022
Solace(dom male) • Aug 4, 2022
Hello everyone, I would greatly benefit from outside perspective of those who can spare it.
There's a certain fear in the dating world, which is also tangible here in our community, about meeting someone new and them being shall we say...unsafe. Recently, a lovely girl requested I sign up for service that would help in her words, keep her safe. I refused, on the grounds that it required my credit card information.
I wish to be clear. I will happily pay for her security. A reasonable fee of course. However, anything that involves dating and my credit card to another service, is an incredible risk of being a scam. To be frank I had serious trust issues with this website. Thus, the situation made me feel unsafe, emotionally because being gullible is never a joy, and financially for the obvious reasons.
So Ladies and Gentlemen...Are there services out there of reputable nature I/we can trust? What are your thoughts on this subject of verifying the safety of an individual? Particularly I'm interested in third party services as that is what was relevant to my experience. I also open to hearing if I am a terribly irresponsible person for not signing up immediately, however I must hear that criticism first before its corrected.