Byrdie wrote:
1. Since I'm looking for local residents, an immediate offer to move to my city.
"Um, you don't _know_ me and you're offering to move halfway across the continent / world based off of what you skimmed my profile? You are either delusional or a scammer."
2. Curt messages.
I understand that some people play this as a numbers game and can't be bothered to compose a message or read a profile. But looking at my profile - not even skimming it, just looking at the amount of content - it's pretty obvious that's not a game I play.
I follow a rule I've learned: never write more than the person who contacted me. EVAR.
Also, I have a default copy-pasta phrase for when I'm done talking to them.
3. Insults.
After running into one of these mofos who admitted to it, I now ask people who try negging / insulting me if they're one of those people who get off on being cussed out by dominants. "If you are, no thanks. I'm not kink-shamming, it's just not my scene."
They usually act SO SHOCKED by the very suggestion that, while reading their reply, I imagine them sputtering.
4. Announce that they're horny / playing with themselves.
"Well. Good luck with that. Bye."
Byrdie,
#2 I'm the same way.
#3 I may be leaning towards sub, but insults will definitely bring my ire. They are just a faceless asshole for the most part and even with a face, I will not hesitate to let my wrath fly. I do not play games like that.
Something else that has been cropping up lately is Dom's who deliberately provoke me .
Because anybody with any decency does not do that outside of a scene and if you are not my Dom, you are not going to like what the results are when I figure out what your sorry ass is doing.
Its foul behavior, really satisfying some kink they have .