red panda |
1 year ago •
Feb 19, 2023
Receiving more pampering in play (where to start?)
1 year ago •
Feb 19, 2023
red panda • Feb 19, 2023
At this stage in my kink journey, I would love to explore receiving more pampering: verbal praise, SMALL gifts ($30 or less and only with partners who wish to engage in this), body worship, and perhaps even service (with time and negotiation).
I am a switch and a woman. So far, I've felt like I have to downplay conversations around receiving in this manner due to the association with sugaring and findom, as well as the general social bias that women should be givers or at least offer exchange. For those who have play partners or dynamics around receiving, how did you start out? Are there any particular kinks or communities that aren't sugar, DDLG, or findom that you found helpful to explore? |
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