EpicParker(sub female)
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1 year ago •
Jun 19, 2023
Protocols
Do you use protocols in your dynamic? How are they used? What if protocol usage is refused or not used correctly? Are protocols important in your dynamic? Protocols start with low (everyday), medium, and high. They can be used for different scenes or situations.
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Miki(masochist female)
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1 year ago •
Jun 20, 2023
Please.. You can start by breaking all your jibberish down so regular bitches like me can understand.
Start with English! |
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dollMaker(dom male)
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1 year ago •
Jun 20, 2023
I have in the past, fairly formal ones and with correction and discipline elements tied into the overall dynamic. Currently though I am not as that structure, approach would be toxic to the person I am involved with, and counter productive.
Flexibility and tailoring structures, formality, rules etc, even dropping that approach, may be required to create a healthy dynamic. I know some always bring the same things into play, are wedded to a particular approach, trying to force a square peg into a round hole. I understand that some people want what they want and that can filter out unsuitable people, for myself I have found that flexibility can be just as rewarding. |
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TopekaDom(dom male)
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1 year ago •
Jun 20, 2023
Being the old school bastard I am, I do tend (meaning always) use protocol during my relationships. They bring focus and understanding on what all is going on. They are part of the mental aspect, which a lot of later BDSM generations find a difficult aspect.
Now like many things within the lifestyle, not all protocols are for everyone. I find the most common are those that deal with food (who gets served, when and how) or entering and leaving a room. Next most common is asking permission for doing something (going to the bathroom is, both the most fun and most horrific) |
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Miki(masochist female)
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1 year ago •
Jun 20, 2023
TopekaDom wrote: Being the old school bastard I am, I do tend (meaning always) use protocol during my relationships. They bring focus and understanding on what all is going on. They are part of the mental aspect, which a lot of later BDSM generations find a difficult aspect.
Now like many things within the lifestyle, not all protocols are for everyone. I find the most common are those that deal with food (who gets served, when and how) or entering and leaving a room. Next most common is asking permission for doing something (going to the bathroom is, both the most fun and most horrific) I love this guy.. Even with that damned pipe. He said it all. I am sorry I didn't get the first question.. But yeah, what he said. And.. Topeka guy already knows from reading my stuff.. I am an unrepentant brat and if I ever fell down a rabbit hole and ended up in Kansas.. He would need a fully equipped whipping post to handle those like me.. Mee ki. |
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