I’m a bratty middle in a ddlg relationship

I’m a bratty middle in a ddlg relationship

amazonlisa​(switch female) • Mar 29, 2024

I do some sex work and daddy seems to be fine with it I tell him everything and hold nothing back does he really love me does he really like taking care of me and I really his baby or did he trick me into this life style?

lambsone • Mar 29, 2024

Some questions to ask yourself: Did he give you a reason to wonder about these things or do you just generally feel insecure in the relationship,? Is there some way he is not communicating with you that you'd like, etc. He may not know what makes you feel secure. Can you chat with him about it?

amazonlisa​(switch female) • Mar 29, 2024

No everything is fine it’s just that because I do the type of work I do I often feel unlovable men can do what they want but women have to be modest so Although I’m very honest with him you just never know

UpFromTheAshes​(switch gender queer) • Mar 29, 2024

It sounds like you may hold some views of yourself, your own worth, and your profession that need to be examined (and perhaps talked through with your partner and other loved ones). Where do these insecurities come from? And once you have found the root of them....is your Daddy really likely to do the same things or the things you're afraid of? Do YOU believe that you're worthy of love and attention and care? Why (or why not)? Are you feeling fulfilled in your relationship or dynamic? Do you feel like you're allowed to be yourself, or are you putting on an act in your personal life?

You said "Although I'm very honest with him, you just never know." There should be signs.....have you talked to him about these feelings you're having? If so, what has he said in response? Does his behavior match his accepting words? If not, what does his behavior tell you?

You should also work to find ways to convince yourself that it's okay, for yourself. Remind yourself (out loud, if it helps) that your Daddy loves you and cares about you and accepts you for who you are. Ask for those reassurances from him where you're able to do so. Work yourself through any cognitive distortions you may be having (one such may be "sex workers are unlovable" ------> Sex workers are human. Sex workers are deserving of the same care and love and compassion as any other human. Sex workers provide services that other people value. Sex workers are individuals, with their own lives outside of sex work. Etc)

I perceive a lot of self-deprecation in what you've said. For my part, I believe that being a sex worker should have no bearing on your worthiness, your lovableness, or any of those other things.

Miki​(masochist female) • Mar 29, 2024

Could be a bit of both, but the "love" is probably not as deep or enduring if he doesn't mind your being involved in that line of work.

Depends on what you want in the long run. Maybe it's great now, but who knows later on, but of course doing sex work and being in a deep and involved relationship do not seem compatible.

But as one never given to deep abiding and committed relationships and also was never involved in sex work, the scope of my thoughts on both is rather limited to say the least.

In the end and in the long run, enjoy whatever works for you and be concerned about what's down the road.... down the road.

Solace​(dom male) • Mar 29, 2024

It's called trust. It isn't always easy. When he says he loves you and enjoys caring for you...you either trust him or you don't.

For some ladies...and men...this is a learned skill.

My advice is for you to take care to not let these thoughts fester. They can ruin a perfectly good relationship.

InATimelyFashion • May 20, 2024

I do not know the whole story but by reading your profile and this.


You deserve better cause Good Genuine Show's it with blueprints. When someone loves you they will show it but someone sweet words they will just say things but never show it. But if they say and show at the same time then they are true. Good ones let you live with them. They show you off, cherish you, show you to their family and friends and not hide you, never put you in position. That good man will just do it, not have women question everything. If your feelings are not being meant they do not show it you gotta walk away don't settle for anything less.

Good Man leads. He would get you out of this job and value you and cherish you. He would respect you and help you show the way. You only need to show your mind and soul. His job protect you make you feel safe.

But if you did this before to keep a ruff over your head I can understand. But if he is telling you to keep making you do this to keep you around or to give him funds so on keeping up the sweet talk then he is just a user he could be doing to more then one that called a pimp some poser doms don't fall for it.

If he takes care of you he would better help advance yourself.

Good man would leave you in this way. They take you to make your life better.

You can do better not telling you what to do but women to other women you do not have to do this you are goddess and temple needs to be respected honored in the right ways the mind and soul the temple is sacred you don't need to sell this. You're stunning, you have a good mind, your shoulders use that mind still to show that temple but only people see your temple, one that wins your heart and respects you better.