*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Bluebutterfly​(sub female){Havelock } • Mar 21, 2021

Hi there everyone. Welcome to the Cage. Have a great time chatting and finding out about the lifestyle or finding your other half, depending on why you are here.
I’m always up for a natter so if you are too come and say hello.
Bbxx

In The Lost We Find​(sub male){Looking} • Mar 21, 2021

Hello I am Seth I am a male sub looking for someone who is willing to train a newbie sorry if that doesn’t interest you I have done lots of read her hair and tried my best to be prepared before joining a community like this.

Villanelle​(staff) • Mar 21, 2021

Welcome everyone!

get around • Mar 15, 2021

Hello cage one thank you for anyone who is reading about my story or journey in life that has led me to more so exploration and open it up to the new discoveries in my life and understanding why and how I am drawn into this new exploration of self-discovery has helped me heal and deal with things that have happened throughout my life. I have always known myself to be a very sexual person with a lot of focus and energy on these feelings inside. I have only been able to find one partner my whole life who was not judgmental and open-minded. At that time in my life after you did as something to be scared of other than accepting that person wholeheartedly with my whole heart I push them away and became more jealous than comfortable. This was after a year of exploring being dominant and submissive at times. I knew that I like the feeling more of being in control of someone's physical limits as well as their mind and where you can go with that control. Since that relationship has ended I have remained single and I am very active online on most all BDSM or fetish sites. Every female that I meat online view bdsm or even mentioning of this lifestyle automatically scares some one. When I am involved with my sub ,lover ,girlfriend ,friend etc. All the pain stress regret or any feeling of a negative anxious energy leaves my body. There are so many different possibilities and ways in which expressing myself through this lifestyle is helping me heal and come to terms with so many dramatic and not dramatic circumstances in my life. I look forward to meeting new like-minded adults and to make new friends!

Villanelle​(staff) • Mar 15, 2021

We had lots of new people join us this weekend - welcome! Please tell us a little about yourselves here. Don't forget our Help section for answers to general questions or feel free to contact us if you need any help.

~Introduction~

kotik​(sub female){considerat} • Mar 15, 2021

Hi! I’m new to the BDSM community and i’m hoping to meet new like minded friends, learn more about the community/lifestyle, and maybe meet a special someone one day. I don’t know if any of that will happen but that’s what i’m hoping for. I’m rather romantic, so i’m not sure how that blends with BDSM but i’m hoping it works. Are there any other romantic subs/doms and how has that worked for you guys? I’m not sure if i should try to find a “normal” person i like and slowly introduce them into BDSM or if i should stick exclusively to BDSM networks to find someone who thinks similarly to me. I have a feeling this is a part of who I naturally am, and i’m not sure what that means for my future... Anyway, hi!

New here!

daddyslittlegirlxx​(sub female) • Mar 14, 2021

I’m a Submissive and I’m looking for some pointers to help my sub side and not to be as selfish as I have been. I enjoy dirty talk, ropes, sand other forms of bondage. I’m open to mostly anything!

Re: *WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Annonnymous​(dom male) • Mar 14, 2021

Hello everyone, I am completely new to both this lifestyle and this website, I have always been curious so I figured it wouldn’t hurt to explore a bit, I believe in trying anything once so if anyone has suggestions or more information I would love to have those conversations, (Male, 22)

Tet​(switch male) • Mar 14, 2021

Hello you fine people!

I'm a geeky video game developer memester who is interested in learning about submission while also sharing some laughs.

A friend of mine introduced me to the Lifestyle JUST before covid hit - so I haven't been able to explore much more in almost a year and a half what poor timing! It wasn't with any real scenes or anything, but some sex clubs in Montreal - which were pretty interesting... though my French isn't perfect so sometimes things were a little awkward haha.

From even that short experimentation and in the time since in quarantine, while I usually identified as Dom earlier in my life, being exposed to new things has lead me to become eager to explore the sub role (I claim the role of switch but right now I'm mostly interested in learning more about being submissive, which is something I've never done before). I have several sub friends who have shared their experiences but as none of them are switches, I haven't been able to actually have a first encounter in that realm. Of course, covid being a thing also makes that tricky xD

I'll be moving to the Portland, Oregon area near the end of the year for a new job and I gather there is quite a scene there. I'm definitely interested in checking out! In the meantime, I would love to chat and learn from all of you! I love the supportive and open minded community here, so I'm excited to mingle Also, moving to Oregon from NY will mean I'll basically have no friends in the area, so I'm hoping that networking within the community will help me find some like-minds more easily.

Hi

jgood • Mar 14, 2021

Hello, jgood here. I am somewhat new to this lifestyle but I know there is much to learn as it is very much an ongoing process. My role in my relationship is a slave and I never new that this was something I would love and enjoy with my Master.

All the best to everyone out there,
Jgood