ElizaEmma(sub female){NotLooking}
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3 years ago •
Oct 4, 2020
Hello! I am a sub female in a "BDSM lite" relationship (if there is such a thing), relatively new, hope to learn about other people's perspectives.
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Online now
Villanelle(staff)
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3 years ago •
Oct 5, 2020
Welcome everyone!
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| xoxodk(sub female) |
3 years ago •
Oct 5, 2020
Hello. New here as well. Pretty new to everything really. I’m a sub female and have tried to learn what I can by trying, reading and research. I’m really hoping to learn a lot more from people who are much more experienced than I am. Thanks!
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Villanelle(staff)
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3 years ago •
Oct 5, 2020
Thanks for the hello xoxodk!
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Villanelle(staff)
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3 years ago •
Oct 8, 2020
Time to give this another bump!
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pinkyDevil(sub trans woman)
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3 years ago •
Oct 9, 2020
Hi
Hello all relitivly new to the community. I’m mtf though I haven’t started yet due to financial reasons. I’m a sub/kitten/little . And since I’ve been searching for a dominate they have all wanted for me to pay them for sessions. So idk what I’m doing but I don’t make enough to pay someone but I also can’t do a one time thing.my main issue is that I have a lot of trust issues so it’s hard for me to trust someone I have to get to know them. I’ve had a mistress before but it didn’t end well and I still have anxiety over it and live in fear everyday. But anyways I’m a night owl and play video games but I love my stuffies. Also love cuddling I have a plethora of kinks and still discovering through porn what turns me on and my headspace depends on my mentality throughout the day and when I’m little it sometimes isn’t sexual and sometimes it is I just don’t know when I go into headspace. And I’m sorry for rambling it’s just how I am. I really can’t think of anything else to say.
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| gamemaster(dom trans man) |
3 years ago •
Oct 9, 2020
Hi, I'm new, too. To pretty much everything except for the theory. Meaning, I've been interested in BDSM, specifically the psychological aspects of it for a while but have had few opportunities to explore any of it yet.
I'm not looking for anything past an education and advice for now because I am not interested in jumping into anything without knowing what I'm doing and how to keep my partner and myself safe. So far I can say that I know I'm not interested in a 24/7 lifestyle but would like an eye level partnership and keep the bdsm in the bedroom so to speak. I'm still in many ways figuring out my own sexual needs and desires. Being FtM, there's a lot of dysphoria and a strong need to keep the clothes on. Dominance for me is much more about my partner than about myself and I 'get off' much more on giving and fulfilling my partner's needs than taking for myself. Being able to have someone trust like that and realising that I'm able to give them pleasure is exhilarating. Due to the way I look and perhaps also the way I behave I originally ventured into this under the assumption that I should submit which went quite horribly wrong and I'm not interested in repeating the experience any time soon. I'll probably ask a plethora of dumb questions on here and hope to gain new perspectives. Thanks in advance! |
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Villanelle(staff)
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3 years ago •
Oct 9, 2020
@pinkyDevil - if anyone asks you for money here please report them by visiting their profile and clicking on the "report" button. Screenshots are very helpful if possible. Any sort of financial domination or pay for play violates our rules.
@gamemaster - please don't hesitate to ask any questions, either by mailing me directly or starting a conversation in the forum. We have loads of fantastic members with all levels of experience who I am sure will be happy to offer their opinions. And welcome! |
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RedSwitch(switch female)
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3 years ago •
Oct 9, 2020
Newbie!
Hello all. I’ve been here this week and I’m in love with this community! I’m just really opening up to BDSM as a whole. I have had some experiences in different relationships, but I know this is where I belong. I am such an open sexual person in bed and have had the shy quiet front...like the librarian cliches, but I’m not oblivious I’m not a 10 or a 9, but underneath that front is my wild kink. I started to play with self bondage last night and started ‘controlled orgasm’ play until one of my children was up and crying outside my bedroom....looking forward to so much more!!! I also started a blog yesterday here. Easier than the one I’m working on for the ‘Mom Life lol
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Villanelle(staff)
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3 years ago •
Oct 11, 2020
Welcome Redswitch!
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