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InqSci​(dom male)
2 months ago • Sep 10, 2022
InqSci​(dom male) • Sep 10, 2022
Hello All!

I am a 50 year old male with a huge appetite for sex. I am naturally dominant in the bedroom; however, sometimes it is nice to have the initiative switch every now and then.

I have been married for 26 years, and have known my wife for 27 years. She is as vanilla as you can get.

We are sexually compatible and I pleasure her as many times as she will let me; however, what does this have to do with BDSM?

She always follows, always wants me to take the initiative and can never talk about her feelings or sex. I have to lead... so I thought that I would take a different tact and possibly see if she is a full submissive (she is) but if she would be interested in a little domination. (She is.... but not quite there yet)

I have been faithful, and hope to continue that vow. I will do anything that makes her feel good -- I just need her to relax... I know she like bondage, but her head space conflicts with her religious upbringing.

I like erotica... and I write Erotica. (Two parts of one of my stories is in the magazine now).

I am looking for ideas of how to expand our relationship as BDSM requires constant communication of which she does not feel comfortable in communicating her feelings... so over the years I have become very observant of her body language and what it means. I crave her to tell me what she wants... but she doesn''t. Perhaps this is where we accelerate our next level by myself taking more charge instead of playing the vanilla game.

I have always had a dominate streak in the bedroom and long ago; had a sub relationship. It was natural feeling and the high was amazing.

Anyway.. I hope to learn and perhaps put into practice a few things that will get her feeling that high we all chase in BDSM.

Always looking for new things.

I like to discuss anything and find people fascinating.

2 months ago • Sep 11, 2022
niaEm • Sep 11, 2022
Hello. I'm from Seattle, WA. I am looking for someone to talk with, meaningfully and intelligently. I also am looking for a poly-like circle. What is my orientation in BDSM? It is a question that would be answered through a more involved conversation and interaction with the right person / people. On some questions, I am still exploring, on the other ones, I have a definite vision, and yet the others the vision is being formed even now. I think that a solid relationship with full devotion and meaningful domination, especially among several people, is a very powerful and desirable state of being.
SpanksByTeeRex​(dom female)
2 months ago • Sep 12, 2022
Good evening. I am SpanksByTeeRex, affectionately called Rah Rah by my ageplay friends. I am originally from South Carolina but currently reside in Georgia. I mainly identify as a sensual lesbian daddi dom, but happily offer the sweetest pain when negotiated. Feel free to introduce yourself. I love to meet new lifestyles.
2 months ago • Sep 13, 2022
PixieSpirit • Sep 13, 2022
Hi Everyone,

Pixie here : ) 33 y.o. bisexual (relatively new) newbie. I heard about from the 4play podcast on YouTube when they gave the site a shoutout. I'm looking to learn as much as I can. Any recommendations for resources would be appreciated. Knowledge is power after all! I'd say I would identify with having switch tendencies, I like impact play and bondage, I love to play the fine line of bratting intentionally, I love biting and there's definitely a little sadomasochist in me for sure!
2 months ago • Sep 15, 2022
Villanelle​(staff) • Sep 15, 2022
Welcome PixieSpirit! Thanks for taking the time to say hello.
actuallylives​(sub female)
2 months ago • Sep 16, 2022

I wanted to like your intro Moonlit. I apologize for not giv

actuallylives​(sub female) • Sep 16, 2022
Moonlit Knight wrote:
Good morning friends.
I joined this community almost a year ago.

With resources I found here, I'm learning how to hold myself in a new regard, and I'm grateful to this platform and various special people for that.

Metamorphosis, that's the name of the game for me. It seems to be working. I am 1000% happier than I was last year at this time.

Questing for a new dynamic with someone 45+.

See you around!