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Zedland​(dom male)
1 hour ago • 07/15/2020 12:48 am
Zedland​(dom male) • 07/15/2020 12:48 am
The abusive ex comes forward about how the woman of your life is actually a manipulative witch who has constructed an elaborate, specific, detailed and internally consistent series of lies and will one day betray you? Yeah it sounds a little insane doesn't it.

Most likely current boyfriend will think you're an asshole trying to fuck things up to continue hurting her. But do as you will.
Sasa​(sub female)
2 hours ago • 07/15/2020 12:13 am

Re: Am I wrong?

Sasa​(sub female) • 07/15/2020 12:13 am
acquiesced wrote:
So am I wrong to try and contact him?


I wouldn't believe you, but I would see the menetekel on the wall a little faster. It's your decision
Mr E​(dom male)
2 hours ago • 07/14/2020 11:20 pm
Mr E​(dom male) • 07/14/2020 11:20 pm
If you feel compelled, why are you canvasing opinion? You seem like your mind is made up.

While I understand you want to help, you need to understand your need isn't entirely altruistic either. The chance of it making things even worse for you is very high, hence people telling you it is not a sound strategy.
Dellydoodah​(sub female)
2 hours ago • 07/14/2020 11:19 pm
Dellydoodah​(sub female) • 07/14/2020 11:19 pm
Don't demean yourself.
It will only show you in a poor light...jealous, bitter, vengeful
As for the lies she said about you... You know the truth , that matters ..and if the so called friends didn't at least pose a question or two your way then they're not real friends.
Move on and be the person you always were... allow people to make their own mistakes.
Sounds like you're well rid of her.
acquiesced​(sub male)
3 hours ago • 07/14/2020 11:15 pm
acquiesced​(sub male) • 07/14/2020 11:15 pm
Mr E.

"So you knew there had been stories of her behaviour before or not?"

I wasn't quite clear. I knew the stories from her mouth, convincing and believable, about the men in her past. I had not heard from anyone else. That's part of the reason I feel compelled to contact him.
Mr E​(dom male)
3 hours ago • 07/14/2020 11:10 pm

Re: Am I wrong?

Mr E​(dom male) • 07/14/2020 11:10 pm
acquiesced wrote:
Now, the stories of her exes before me all make sense.


So you knew there had been stories of her behaviour before or not?

If you only heard later, it makes little difference. Your efforts will just be turned around to show how 'destructive' you are.
acquiesced​(sub male)
3 hours ago • 07/14/2020 11:08 pm
acquiesced​(sub male) • 07/14/2020 11:08 pm
DrKrall wrote:
He won't believe a word you say since it's exactly what he expects you to say if you are the person she has made you in his mind.


He would expect me to be something that I am actually not, and that would be immediately obvious. That's why she tries so hard to keep all of us separated.
acquiesced​(sub male)
3 hours ago • 07/14/2020 11:05 pm
acquiesced​(sub male) • 07/14/2020 11:05 pm
Mr E wrote:
Would you have believed the warnings of those that came before?


None of them tried. I at least would have raised questions about the stories about them with a more critical ear.
DrKrall​(dom male)
3 hours ago • 07/14/2020 10:58 pm
DrKrall​(dom male) • 07/14/2020 10:58 pm
There is no right or wrong. But it probably is a total waste of time and energy to try to reach him. It will only make her case aginst you stronger.
He won't believe a word you say since it's exactly what he expects you to say if you are the person she has made you in his mind.
It's a lose lose situation for you, so just walk away. You can't fix the world. You can only fix you.
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