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1 month ago •
Jul 17, 2024
Masters/Owners
1 month ago •
Jul 17, 2024
FracturedPeaks(switch female) • Jul 17, 2024
So this is going to be a bit long and before I start I just want to say, I don’t judge anyone for what they enjoy or what brings them fulfillment. I hope I don’t accidentally offend anyone but I need some help understanding. I’ve met a lot of owners/masters lately. As a Dom sometimes I can see the appeal that kind of submission can bring, but as a submissive it gives me a lot of anxiety. I am curious how a master/owner can treat a submissive as an object constantly and not begin to lose sight that they are people. Especially Doms who like to degrade and humiliate their submissives.
So instead of jumping to conclusions I figured I might as well ask. Do you see your “slaves” as people? Do you ever lose sight of the fact that they are human beings with a soul? I realize master/slave dynamics take a lot of trust and time to build, so getting to that point in the relationship where everyone is comfortable with that dynamic is a lot of work. And I’m certain most Doms/subs work very hard. I also am just curious about the sorts of people who become Dom’s who want to own a person. What drives someone to want to have complete control over every little thing a submissive does? How do you regulate yourself to make sure those feelings don’t become toxic or abusive? I know most Doms are good people. They want to support, guide, and care for a submissive. They are self aware and have good self control. I don’t want anyone to get the impression that I view masters as something bad. This is me trying to work through some feelings and gain understanding rather than make assumptions. Any input would be greatly appreciated. |
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